How did you get over your anger?

@caesarin (1089)
Indonesia
June 4, 2009 12:09pm CST
Once you got angry how do you get over it? how do you release your anger? help!
6 responses
@mye_drew (182)
• Israel
4 Jun 09
for me i release my anger by hanging out with my friends go 4 window shopping,eating outside...i use to buy some things to forget my anger
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
8 Jun 09
Before I got married, I still got the chance to go for window shopping when I got angry but now with 2 children, that is not an option because they are still very young. It won't enjoyable if I bring my 3 and 1 yr old for window shopping. Thanks for sharing.
@mye_drew (182)
• Israel
8 Jun 09
kids is the best kill our anger my friend,.even i dont have yet kids..
• United States
4 Jun 09
I try and forget about it or beat the guy up if he angered me(If I don't like him that is.)
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 09
Hi guitarpunk. I think hitting is not an option. I'm angry but I can't hit anybody. That's against my being.
• United States
4 Jun 09
Yeah, I know but there are people who insult my family and stuff so I have no other choice.
• Malaysia
10 Jun 09
First i will switch my mind away from focusing on the matter that make me angry. If there is a person standing in front of me and piss me off, i will make my mind to think of other thing, then i will quickly go away if that person is still pissing me off. I'll keep telling myself not to get angry as getting angry is actually torturing myself. The next thing i will do is to do some sports in order to release tension. Normally i will feel much better after that.
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
10 Jun 09
Thanks for responding. Sports? . . . I'll try it sometimes.
@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
29 Sep 09
Hey, Well I don't really get angry at all, well I actually do, but now I have learned to control my anger. If I do not control my anger I just merely hurt myself mentally because I would do more damage to myself instead. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
@fornalina (156)
• Poland
4 Jun 09
Screaming helps a lot. When I'm angry I go on a walk and when I'm far from home and there's nobody around I scream out all my anger and frustrations. Also doing housework helps a lot, like peeling potatoes or cleaning my room. About 20min of housework is enough for me to calm down.
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 09
I heard about screaming in the water if we can't go anywhere, just stuck where you are, home. I should try that. Houseworks might be possible but I have children that I can't avoid. But thanks for your advise. Yesterday I slammed newspapers to the floors because I know that I won't regret it and I felt so much better after that. But I'm afraid of becoming a harsh person.
@Caylaxx (96)
4 Jun 09
I release my anger by doing housework! Lol, the minute someone makes me acting I act like a lunatic and start doing the ironing and the washing and just generally tidying up. I only noticed that this was what I do recently. Sometimes a walk outside helps if the weathers nice, really calms you down
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
4 Jun 09
A walk outside is not possible for me. but I'll try housework. I got angry to things that I can't avoid everyday. There are always things like my children and also my in laws comments and actions. I really wish that I can take whatever they are without getting angry but it's just so hard to avoid the anger.