what will you do when your partner does not agree with you?

Hi yonkie..this is an easy one for me. Neither my hubby or I beleive in fighting or arguing over a subject that is a matter of opinion. In a case where we have different opinions, we just agree, to disagree. It saves a lot of agony in the end. There is no way that 2 people are always going to agree on everything and arguing is not the solution.

Well, even in your family there are always disagreements between siblings and parents. much as more with your friends. if that's the case then it's impossible not to have disagreements with your partner, even for the most compatible couples have some differences.

Then we will argue and discuss it. After some time, one of us will give in at last:) I love China

Definitely, i will step down for the sake of the relationship if he have the good point why he do not agree with me. But i will insist mine if he do not tell me clearly why he don't agree with me. Lately i have disagreement with him, and because i insist my point and i said i can not understand you and we will keep in disagreement if you insist that issue to me, it result of having no communication for days, but when we got communication again, i said, okay because we will never end up to agree in this issue, do you agree with me that we disagree each other? To resolve this, we will forget this and don't pop up the issue again?, He said yes, and thank you for that, after that, we are now okay, and when disagreement on something arises both of us will say, we have to agree that we disagree on this and forget. I do not know if this will work to others.

Me and my husband doesn't agree all the time, what we always do is that we hear each others side, now if I think I am right I always insist my point if he sublimate then we go with mine, but if he argue with me then that's the time I sublimate with him.

hmp........? as my experience too. i let him do what he wants to do i will support him whast he wanted to do.. i will do too for my self. And be patient on what are those obstacle that coming to my relationship. and be prayed also...thanks...and God bless..............

Oh come on, disagreement would always be there. Suppose you are in a relationship since 18 years of age, then your partner was living in a totally different environment for 18 years. In the same way, you too are from a totally different world. So how come you expect both of you to agree with each other so suddenly. Love is accepting others faults and weaknesses. Its all about understanding. So for your question, if she doesn't agree with me, I try to listen to her point. If it has good reasons supporting it then why not change myself, but if my reasons are better, then I'll make her understand. If she still does not understand, can't I even do such a small thing as an agreement on a small issue for the only girl I love ???

I will seed the commons from the disagreements! For example, you like this guy, but your mom don't. Why? She must have her reason, she says that she want you to have the best! You can ask her, what is the best for me in your opinion? She will tell you all the difination that she has for you, you can choose and pick those in common and told her that you think that guy is the best to you. You need to agree something with her first, then start from there to show your opinion, that might work!