can love change your life.... is it true...???

love - is it true
@MANSHAA (324)
India
June 5, 2009 5:52am CST
every one says yes to it... love can change the life but it would be in both the ways better and worst...according to me there is no such love just infatuation... its better not to be in love.. just plan your career to achive the success...
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@joanzz (174)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
I do believe that love can change the life because when I am inlove, it makes me changed and I feel so good. For me, It is so happy if you are inlove and you cannot explain your feelings. But love feelings are under the control of principle.
@MANSHAA (324)
• India
11 Jun 09
hmmm are you in love... good to hear that you love can change the life....
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@dianmelydia (2269)
• Indonesia
5 Jun 09
Certainly love can do that. Love is about happiness. And happiness is the most important thing in human life. Everyone searching for happiness in their life. I think when we love someone, that's mean we start a new chapter in our life. It's all about happiness. No one can life without love in their heart. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.
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@MANSHAA (324)
• India
11 Jun 09
its true that no one is there without love in there heart and no one is there without love too ... but the only thing is where can we find and how to find them
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@YazEid (1139)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Nah .. It is the determination which changes our life , not love nor poorness , those who determine and work hard will change their lives otherwise it will stay as it is
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@MANSHAA (324)
• India
11 Jun 09
hmmm.... that true hard work makes man to achieve there target but there should be some motivation for it as to achieve target... and thats comes from the one we love ....
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• India
5 Jun 09
That's not the correct way of viewing this topic. Well i say according to my opinion when you really love someone you tend to change in the way he or she likes. In the end you ultimately become someone who you are not! And this is the main reason for breaking up of love relationshipss. Well as far as i know stay normal yourself instead of pretending who you are not; your relation could go a long way. I have many friends and couple friends who looked very nice in college days but when it comes to real life it is nothing but dissatisfaction. So beware. And one more thing loving someone and changing yourseld as per him or her without force is not infatuation. It is practical adjustment which every human has to do. There is something called as ego factor in all humans. Once that is hurt you are no one..! absolutely right you are no one.! Stay away from such heart breaking situation..!
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@MANSHAA (324)
• India
11 Jun 09
thank you for viewing this discussion.. its true that love hurts a lot.. when it is separated ..
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@daliaj (5674)
• India
5 Jun 09
Yes, of course, love can change you a lot. When you are in love, you start thinking about the other person. Love changes the way you dress, the way you talk, the way you express things....a lot of things. It also makes you to do more in your studies or work.
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@MANSHAA (324)
• India
11 Jun 09
ya i saw that....love changes life...
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@med889 (5941)
5 Jun 09
Love changes a life and a person completely no matter if how much one can deny about it. When I realised that I have fallen in love with my boyfriend is was so wonderful because I naver thought I will be able. So from then Life is beautiful, there is always that person near you to listen , love and understand you.
@MANSHAA (324)
• India
11 Jun 09
understanding is important in every relationship without that no one can ever be with each other whether in love or friendship
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@harshadod (858)
• India
29 Sep 09
Who is the most selfish person? The person who loves. We all love, one way or either. To move ahead in life you require love, to move ahead in love you require life. Everything is born out of love. The romantic concept of love, love as a feeling has caused more harm. Whenever we act, it is a form of love. Only we fail to understand it. Love demands strength and courage. Both of them vary from person to person and in the same person, from time to time. So love is never static. In fact it is the most dynamic thing. Love demands that we keep growing in all spheres. read kahlil Gibran and Scott Peck.
@emandi (102)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Planning a career is definitely important, but love is often something to be enjoyed. Many kinds of love just start with infatuation (which is a kind of love) and many stories end there. But there is something beyond that, the kind that accepts and forgives and feels with that person, and that's the kind that truly changes your life, regardless of the ending of that particular love story.
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@EliteUser (3964)
• Australia
29 Sep 09
Hey, Well I think that love can easily change anyone's life, but the thing that you have to be careful with is that sometimes love can be painful, not just happy. Because you may be left heart broken, instead of in love. Make sure you have a good day, God bless and Happy Lotting!!
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
5 Jun 09
Yes!Love can change the entire color of your life.It is the first time you are more concerned about the other.Before that,you think of your self and see the world with your narrowed eyes.When love enters into your mind,your views are widened and you can see beauty everywhere.Simply to say,you get transformed to another being.So,better love and lose that to remain without love.Cheers!
@mhethess (379)
• Philippines
5 Jun 09
Hi MANSHAA, love can really change one's life especially if that love is from the Lord, Jesus loves us and we must also love Him and our fellowmen, There are different kind of love the agape love, eros love and felial love. Agape love for God, eros love for your partner and felial or brotherly love. God has put mind above heart so we need to use them both to have a better life not a worst one. And to achieve our success let us ask the Lord for wisdom and seek His guidance. He will the one who will direct our plans not us. Just enjoy your life with the Lord. Thanks, can you be my friend?
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