How Would you Feel If your Lover HAs Feelings For Someone Else?

@payout (3794)
United States
June 6, 2009 11:35am CST
Well Me and my Bf are on a break.. I cry a lot and so did he.. (Just to remind some of you This is a Gay Relationship. We both are guys) Well yeah He wanted the Apartment key back and some of his stuff. I gave it to him he wanted me to leave right away. I didn't want to so I said lets talk. He didn't want to he gave me a hug but a weak one. I said why are you doing this to me.. I realize his friend that he just met he likes him but his friend doesn't like him. My Boyfriend admit he was confused. He need time to think. He said it's a 70% that we will go back together. Then we was fighting and arguing then we end up kissing. I cried some.. That he is hurting me. then. He said Everything is going to be alright I'm 17 and this my first Boyfriend I ever had. So it hurt me a lot. He just has mix emotions and need time.. I was thinking just let him have his time.. He said he will stop talking to his friend this gay dude. I talk to the gay Dude he said they did nothing and that he treats people the way he will like to be treated. I said I'm the same way. He said he wont mess with someone if they have a Boyfriend. I text him and told him later on I said my Boyfriend is going through a lot and is confused so I think it's best and helpful if you don't talk to him or hangout. Because they did that. My Boyfriend start having feelings towards him. Yes it's a break but I don't think I'm going to be a fool and wait forever. WHAT DO YOU THINK? CAN YOU GIVE ME ADVICE? WHAT SHOULD I DO? WAIT SEE IF HE WILL GET BETTER?
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@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
7 Jun 09
I'm sure you are aware that if you enter in to a relationship you are bound to be hurt. There's only two endings in every relationship. Breaking up or happy ending. If you really love him set him free. If he returns to you then he is really meant for you. Time heals all wounds. In due time you will learn to accept the fact that what you have today might be gone tomorrow. We are not keepers...we are just borrowers in this world. Cheer up.