Need craft ideas for 9 year old-with a purpose but low on patience

@coffeebreak (17798)
United States
June 6, 2009 8:09pm CST
I have a 9 yo grand daughter. she is smart as a whip, however has a low patience level. She can play a computer game where she creates and builds a zoo anywhere in the world, but hand crafts.. her patience just doesn't match! I have tried couple different things in the sewing world but she just isn't there yet. But she loves crafts!! This kid can take a piece of paper, a pencil and a roll of scotch tape and build a jungle in the forrest.. but I cna't find something that holds her patience. She does necklaces and bracklets and things like that, but how manay of those can one make? What the heck do you do with them all? No one she makes them for wears them and she herself forgets to wear hers... that is another problem.. all these little short attention span crafts.. what do you do with them? I was in Joanne Crafts today and looked.. money no object at this point.. and they had some fun crafts, but the main problem is... what do you do with them when they are done? We try to do for gifts.. but as usual..the person hasn't a clue what to do with them.. doesn't really want the little thing anyway so..trash it goes. SO my delima is.. I need a craft that is not a huge time consumer and not to intricate and can be completed in a few days tops and not to intricate, yet fun to do, and a purpose! I just can't stand tossing her little things she makes, but again.. what the heck do I do with them! Her mom has already told her not to bring any home...so..anyone got any ideas or suggestions?: We are in an apartment so no outside gardening will work.. although that is what she'd like to do. I am having her plant mint for tea and she'll like that but that is the only item she "likes" that she can plant and grow! Thanks for any suggestions....
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@pinkap (48)
• United States
7 Jun 09
Oh sweetie, I can so relate to what you're going through. My now 19 year old niece was exactly like that. She still learned to knit, crochet, sew, garden... oh just about everything you can think of but does none of it because she doesn't have to patience to see a project grow. She wants to make and finish it right then and there. :-) :-) Plus the fact that my sister was not very supportive didn't help. Here are a few items that we do together that she really enjoys though: Handmade soap: we purchased a kit a few years ago at a craft store that had everything for making 7 soaps. We purchased a few more scents over the years, but the $20 investment has lasted me years. Everyone can use a few pretty soaps every once in a while. :-) I'm just sad that I'm too allergic to use any of them myself! :-) :-) Kumihimo: We don't play with this one as often, but we work on this one together when we make curtain ties for anyone that has redecorated or moved into a new house. You can get a kumihimo wheel for about $12 to $18 (depending on where you purchase it at) from a craft, beading or yarn shop. I like using silk thread that match a person's decor. Usually the wheel comes with instructions for a basic braid or you can find them on line but there are a few good books on this as well. My niece gets is all started and works on it for about 4 or 5 hours... then I work on it to get the final length, then she finishes it. Pretty quick and I really enjoy it too. :-) No sew quilts: I'm not really sure if that's the right name, but I got my niece a kit from Mary Maxim. It comes with this foam on a tray-like thing and bits of fabric. You then use a butter knife to push in the bits of fabric in the precut crevacis on the foam. Each section is a certain color to make a certain design. I got her a humming bird design that was really cute. I think she started and finished in less than 3 hours, then hang up on the wall. :-) Another craft that you may have already tried but I'm going to suggest anyway is cute and fun and you can always use as Christmas ornaments or a pretty decoration. It's those beads that you put on these forms and when you're done, you put a paper over them and iron them together. I wish I could remember what they're called. I got a huge bucket of those beads at Ikea for really cheap and we've made sets of ornaments for gifts over the years. It's a pretty quick project and we only work on them a little at a time to not overwhelm her. My 5 year old son also loves these, but then, he has a little more patience than my niece. It's a little difficult to teach a craft to a young person when she is not getting any support from other family members. My sister was like that and it really hindered my niece's appreciation for anything hand made until we found that she really enjoyed those hand made soaps. Haven't heard one complaint since then and that was almost 10 years ago! :-) There are also tons of food crafts that we play with but that's for another post. :-) :-) Take care and I wish you the best of luck, Pinka http://pinkap.etsy.com http://pinkap.blogspot.com http://profile.to/pinkap
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
7 Jun 09
Thanks for the suggestions. Her mom (my daughter) hated doing crafts as a kid. I did probably 80% of all crafts out there - needle work my biggest love -if it was done with a needle... I did it! Crewel and embroidery were my favorites. Knitting was the only thing i didn't bother to learn as I already learned crochet (grandma taught me!) and couldn't see learning something nearly the same. Other than that..I was always trying to get her to do soemthing and she just wouldn't. One year it was "mandatory" that we make all our christmas tree ornaments by hand! She did okay on a few and I give her credit for at least trying, but just didn't stick! (was the best tree I ever had, by the way!) I'll look into your suggestions. The soap might be a good one..Since you do that.. do you know.. if we make the soaps now and wrap them appropriately.. will they still "last" and be "good" at christmas time? When I was in high school, mom was into all crafts (I inherited it from her!) and we did soaps... regular bar but put a picture on the front and covered it with wax.. were great, but my GD can't do the wax part and other than that.. nothing else to do! But the scent..she might get into that... but only if we can keep them for Christmas gifts. I think the main problem with choosing the item is what to do with it after it is done!!!
@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
7 Jun 09
THanks for the suggestions. I got the information on making scented rocks and I think my GD is going to swoon over that one!!! I thought to.. I could use cookie cutters to make the shapes as well as just making "rocks". I'll probably start that the next week she is here and off school when we have time. I have the recipe to make "Dinosaur Eggs" and she just absolutely went balistic over those little things! I had to make them, but she loved digging them! And I think I'll look into the soap with her picture on the bar for her to give as gifts at Christmas time... maybe I can think of a way for her to work with the hot wax and not get hurt.,..maybe spoon it over or something like that. Thanks for the tip!
@pinkap (48)
• United States
7 Jun 09
:-) :-) My sister is exactly the same way! She never liked any kind of craft as a kid and can't stand or appreciate hardly anything handmade now. My mom did everything and I got it from her. The only thing my mom didn't do that I love doing is every lace you can imagine. :-) Whatever I can get my hands on, I fall in love with it. :-) As for the soaps, we've made them months in advance and haven't had any problems. But then as soon as we wrapped them up and gave them as Christmas presents we don't really know what happened to them. I know that my sister uses them up pretty quickly but for the other relatives that we've given them to I don't really know. In the same section of the craft store where you can find the soap and candle making stuff, you should also see some lip gloss stuff as well. Since my sister and niece suffer from constant dry lips we do make quite a bit of this too which is always fun. It usually starts with both of us making them, then I'm stuck finishing them up and cleaning... but at least she's doing something else for a little while than vegetating on the couch listening to her ipod or downloading games that ruin my computer. :-) I haven't looked farther than my own local craft store, but I do know that you can also make your own shampoos and lotions too. It's something that people use so there should be a constant need/use for them unlike a decoration or ornament. :-) Epson salt and perfume samples are always fun to mix and make scented bath salts. You can use a bit of food dye to make different colors and even make designs in a jar like those colored sand things. It can be as cheap or as expensive as you want depending on the type of jar you get. Perfume samples are always available at the mall and a little really goes a long way. :-) As for crafts that can be eaten.... have you tried cake (cupcake or cookie) decorating? It was one of my absolute favorites as a kid because I could eat the end result. :-) There is also ideas on making marshmallow men, peanutbutter boats, stained glass butter cookies.... not something you want to make every day but something that takes at least a little skill and is fun. :-) Wishing you the best, Veronica
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
11 Jun 09
How about scrapbooking...they have the little 6x6 scrapbooks...buy a few pages of pretty paper...some stickers and she can make a little scrapbook of her friends or her pets etc...she can leave it anytime and go back to it. My youngest granddaughter is four and she has done some scrapping.....also she loves to paint. So I buy a few things at the dollar store like little birdhouses that she also gives as gifts...
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
11 Jun 09
We do scrapbook. THat is the only thing she can do a page or two and if she gets tired.. can pick up where she left off. She has several from her "life" and enjoys looking back at it. Yeah, those buys are the dollar store (and now Michaels Craft store) are really good and she likes doing them.. but my other part of the problem is... what do you do with all those little things once they are painted or done however? I have a ton, mom has a ton and they have absolutely no use! What we have been doing is just letting them sit for a while.. then relocate them elsewhere and once GD forgets about them.. we toss them. But that is like tossing money.. although at least she had a lot of fun for a buck! Maybe I am to frugal!! Someone mentioned scented rocks and I got a recipe for that so we are going to do that the next full week she is here. She' s in there right now, writting a story. She loves to make up stories (got a novelist on my hands!) and I have given her several writting/journal books and she loves them. And keeps those and we both read them from time to time. She has so many good ideas!!!
@peavey (16936)
• United States
7 Jun 09
Sounds like you really do have a dilemma. Have you tried plastic canvas? They have some very simple patterns for kids. What about paper beads? Those turn out a lot prettier than they sound. Or maybe she would enjoy working with clay?
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
7 Jun 09
Tried all those! She doesn't have the patience for needle point.. and the beads are to detailed for her. I even found a recipe for clay and made 6 different colors.. she does like to play with that, but then makes things and wants to let them dry... and they dry and then..... there they sit....she doesn't really want to do anything with them, and mom says not to bring anymore of that stuff home. I have one thing to do and that is to make the hand print for her to give for christmas gifts.. but other than that...
• United States
8 Jun 09
They have kits for dream catchers that are not too hard to put together and actually work when you put them over or near a bed that you sleep in.If she likes necklaces then get some better beads and pendants to put on the strings (I put together necklaces that i sell at pow wows that use a pendant, a few beads and leather cord, I tie the ends so that they are adjustable and they sell well for me.An aquarium coud be a thing of beauty and teach responsibilities but it does take a while to fully stock it right.If you started with a 20 gallon tank and a pair of guppies or a trio (one male and two or more females) they the tank coud become stocked in just a few months plus you might be able to answer questions about birth and other things that are not as embarrassing.
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
8 Jun 09
Thanks for the suggestions.My problem with the things like Dream Catchers is... how many can she make? I mean, she makes a couple and they get taken home and then...how many can she hang around her room? We have done things like that, but mom says not to bring any more of it home.. just don't have room for it! And I have my fair share at my house! She does make the necklaces.. but again.. how many can she make before it is to much. I have sand crabs for her.. about 2 years now.. she got bored with those cause you can't "play" with them and only redecorate their tank so much! Fish and me don't match... she is only here every other week and I don't want to take care of them while she is gone. Her mom has gotten her some from time to time, but they die all the time. Currently they got 2 female betas and they are doing fine, but again...not much to do with them. And part of the problem is a divorce and with dad one week, mom the next and with me while mom works. Neither dad or mom have a crafty nerve in their bodys so she can't take it home and expect any help on a craft. So I am trying to find somethign she can really get into for a few days while with me and be done with the craft when she leaves me. But her patience problem is a problem for alot of crafts...
@Amberina (1541)
• United States
7 Jun 09
How about scented rocks? you can find the recipe online an she can make a ton an put them in little dishes to make all your rooms smell nice.
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
7 Jun 09
Now that might be something! Thanks! Ill check it out... and maybe she could make the dishes some how too.. thanks alot for the idea!
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
8 Jun 09
make a Family encyclopedia.Help her affirm her place in the family, and in the march of recent history, with this family album project.Build a back to school Bulletin board, good organization is always worth the effort, plus it helps limit stress during the school year.
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@coffeebreak (17798)
• United States
8 Jun 09
Done that! I'm a 15 year scrapbook vet - had a store and everythine! I started her scrapping when she was 4 and she has several albums.. she does enjoy looking back at them! She does do a few pages off and on.. on that project.. it is to calm for her! She gets bored as it is basically nothing but sticking stickers, writting/journaling and cropping pictures. I have given her more "complicated" embelishements to work with, and that helps, but a page or two and her energy is busting out! Her mom is putting her in tennis this summer.. maybe that can calm her down for craft time!!! Thanks for the suggestion