Why do kids hard to control now adays?
By geniustiger
@geniustiger (1694)
Philippines
June 7, 2009 9:22am CST
I have imagine that as the generation goes up
kids ar also hard to control and discipline.
Is it in the food they eat that came from
instants? Like instant coffee, cereals,milk,
noodles and evrything or because of the milk
they drink. Old people will say they just like
cows attitude and goats behaviour that so active,
hyper and hard to manage ? What's the best thing
thing to do with this situation. Im plan to
surrender managing them and scolding them. Its better
to reamin silent than saying anything. Any recommendation
you have , kindly share to me.
2 responses
@okkidokitokki (1736)
• United States
7 Jun 09
The best thing for you to do is remember that you are the PARENT. You are not their friend, you are the person responsible for ensuring they know how to act properly and respectfully.
It is NEVER better to remain silent when your child is acting wrongly, that only shows them that you either do NOT care or you might care but you are not going to stop their bad behavior.
If you honestly think it is their food then stop buying stuff that is bad for them. You are the adult in the house. You are the one buying instant food.
Please, please, please, do NOT stop getting on to your kids, they will only become brats and monsters and it WILL be YOUR fault. Instead, ground them, if you spank then spanks them, talk to them, anything but be their best friend or ignore thier bad behavior. The world will thank you if you do not give up.
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@vaibhavi80 (243)
• India
7 Jun 09
I think scolding is not a solution for any problem but talking with them as a freind is the better solution ever.
@okkidokitokki (1736)
• United States
7 Jun 09
I read your post and now that I have calmed down I am going to respond.
I do not know if you have children or not but I will say that what is wrong with the children of today is that their parents want to be cool. Their parents want to be their friend and not their parents. It is so easy to be a friend, that means that you do not get on to them, you do not ground them and you do not tell them that they are doing something wrong.
Real life does not work that way. Children are not perfect little angels. They need someone to tell them when they are acting wrong and messing up. THey have tons of friends. WHat they need is a parent or two who is not afraid to be the bad guy.
Children need discipline and love, not another best friend to support their every action.
