What would you do after you know that your friend will get married with.....

Indonesia
June 7, 2009 10:51am CST
I have a friend that soon will getting married, but i've just known that her future husband isnt the one that she's really love, she'll married her because he's the fastest one who asked her to get married (proposed) 1st. After she agreed to married with him, she just known that the man she love will proposed her too... but now my friend will get married with the man she doesnt love... And I just know that the man she'll get married is not as good as what i've been thinking before... What should i do...????
2 responses
• United States
7 Jun 09
If you know as much as what you are saying, then you should probably talk with her, only. I do not think that it will do any good, though. My suggestion on all of this is this is your friend's life, not yours. We are each responsible for our choices. I would, however, pray that God would give enlightenment to both men and to her and give them an understanding of what to do. After that I would be at peace and trust that God heard your prayers. God knows everyone's heart in this matter even more than you do. I then would thank God that He is working it out perfectly and go on with my life. P.S.The hardest thing to do in life is involve God and then trust that He will answer as you praise Him for the answered prayer before you see the results. This process is called resting in God. I have also prayed for your friend and the two men involved.
• Indonesia
8 Jun 09
thanks for your advice... i do think so, i only can pray to God that this choice are the best choice n future for everyone and that everyone will be happy... thanks..
• United States
8 Jun 09
When we only can pray to God, then we step out of His way and His mighty hand comes in and does a marvelous work. Someday your friend and these two young men will know that you prayed and they will be so thankful for God's intervention through you. Isn't it fun to pray and ask and then know that the request was heard and a mighty force has been unleashed to bless whomever we have prayed for!
• Indonesia
12 Jun 09
yes... and i'll wait for that
@larish (2191)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
You just pray. I honestly believe that you cannot do anything especially if your friend is already decided to marry this person she doesn't really love. Just wish her to be happy with the decision she made.
• Indonesia
30 Jun 09
Yes, i only can pray for all to be happy... i'm sure that god have good plans for us