why people do extra marital affair?

extra maritial affair - extra affair after marriage
@sonusd (1547)
India
June 8, 2009 7:54am CST
I have seen taht people have extra marital affair, I did not understand is it their attitude and they are loose character or they may not get sufficient love and care from their spouse, whose fault this is?the person who do extra marital affair or his/her spouse
2 responses
• United States
8 Jun 09
An affair could happen for many different reasons. It may because they have a loose character. But if it's love and care from their spouse they are wanting, they should talk to their spouse about it. It's the person who does the cheating's fault. It's no excuse for an affair. I feel if you are having an affair, you shouldn't be married.
@glesil_00 (1143)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
You are right in that. They are not contented in the relationship they are in the moment and they want to have another one. Sometimes it is also a pride or achievement that you are beautiful/handsome and you can get into someone if ever you want.
@Jayrent (127)
• Philippines
8 Jun 09
Yes, and for my opinion one reason is that the partner do not found happiness in the current relationship and look for more. The partner maybe not content to one partner and look for another. The partner want to collect more and more partner.
• United States
8 Jun 09
Good topic!! There is such a tear down of MORAL status in this country...everyone is tempted (grass looks greener)..A closer commitment and a relationship with God will help....It is a trick of the devil to tear down the family setting...people feel they don't have to obey Gods rules...even if you are NOT a spiritual person, somewhere down inside...they know this is WRONG...It is a SELFISH thing to do...would that person want the spouse or signifigant other to do what they are? I don't think so...good rule of thumb.....IF YOU DON'T WANT YOUR SPOUSE TO DO WHAT YOU ARE....THEN DON'T YOU DO IT.......GREAT TOPIC.....