What shoulf I do with him /

@pinetree (218)
China
June 9, 2009 7:00am CST
He is my first boyfriend ,and that yearI was 19years old ,he is my classmate ,we like each other ,maybe for three years ,but we didn't have too much communication with each other .Soon ,we are U niversity students ,and we are in different place to study ,but he become my boyfriend very quickly .BUT ABOUT 105 DAYS LATER ,I say bye to him .both of us are very sad ,after long time's silence ,foer years later ,he expressed his attitude to together again ,but it is not so obvious , I also like him very much ,what should I do with him ?Sometimes I felt tired ,I want to give up ,but I can not see his attitude ,what should Ido ?
3 responses
• India
10 Jul 09
this is something that you have to decide for yourself . its you who have to live with your bf and not we you should see if you can live with your bf or not and cope up with his attitude. you can even try to change him ...if you like him so much you can give it a try and see if it works for you or not .
@pinetree (218)
• China
13 Jul 09
Thank you ,now ,I felt that I shouldn't just sit here and waithing ,I can also do something initiativelI will pray God to change him ,bless him ,and I will also try my best to let him know my feeling ,and have a good result to both of us ,thank you .
@lulu1220 (1006)
• United States
22 Jun 09
He obviously did not appreciate you or was ready for a relationship. You should focus on yourself, your studies and your friends. You should let him know how you feel and if he still does not respond, then let him go for now. Your true love it out there, you just not have met him yet.
@pinetree (218)
• China
27 Jun 09
Thank you for your advice,I want to wait half more year ,if I can cee him this spring festival we can communicate more ,if not ,I really give up completely . then make a final decision ,and next year ,I will begin my new life ``
@CJscott (4187)
• Portage La Prairie, Manitoba
28 Jun 09
But about 105 days later...I live that aspect of talking with a girl. This happened at exactly this time. You have many choices before you, all with both positive and negative aspects. If I were in your position, I would follow that creek near your village into the mountain a little ways, sit in a clearing and meditate until the answer came to me. Cheers.