how do you deal to your bf that has a bad temper?

@kaorulen (258)
Philippines
June 9, 2009 7:37am CST
lotters! my bf has a very bad temper. he can be easily be angry and sometimes I'm feeling get tired of it. even though I'm the one whose the right to be angry. the the thing is he much angrier than me, so to end the fight I'm the one who will raise the white flag just to stop a war. you how do you deal with a bad temper kind of person?
3 responses
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
13 Oct 12
I also have a partner who can easily get angry and most of the time it happened when I'm asking question to him like when I ask what t-shirt he will use for his work, he will answer but I did not heard well so I will ask him again, because of that he will get angry. He will shout and shout on me, so I will do is just shut up and not talk to him until he talk to me in a nice way.
@britt_200 (1226)
• United States
10 Jun 09
im not sure....i would just talk to him...tell him that you dont like it when he gets angry. maybe suggest some anger management.
@beachstarz (1092)
• United States
9 Jun 09
Hi kaorulen, My husband probably has more patience then I do . We are both very calm people with no temper . I could not have it in my home . I wouldn't allow it . If your bf is being mean , or having a bad temper don't allow him to treat you wrong . If you allow it , he will only get worse and someday he might hurt you. I have known a couple of women that were married to abusive men and it started out with a bad temper . Don't let something like this happen to you .. Always talk to someone , tell someone if he is treating you wrong . No one deserves to live with anger , or fear . Take care of you !