What will you do if your relationship with your partner become boring?

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@hanah87 (1835)
Malaysia
June 10, 2009 1:23am CST
Not all relationship will always happy and in good condition forever.Sometimes we will feel boring in our relationship.Many ways we can do to improve our relationship.So,what ill you do if you feel boring in your relationship?
6 responses
@daliaj (5674)
• India
19 Jun 09
I don't think it wil happen in my relationship with my parnter since we love each other a lot and we enjoy a great frienship. There will be problems, debates, fights, and bad times sometimes, but that is temporary. The love and the support given we share help us our relationship keep going.
@glesil_00 (1142)
• Philippines
18 Jun 09
Probably because there are times that the other one seems unavailable and do not want to talk or communicate. Sometimes other need space and stay afar from another. When it gets boring, i give a time to have distance for a while and have a room to breath, communication will be affected, but i keep a regular e-mail to send to him. I send e-card, Love poems, Handwritten messages in his inbox. I ask him what can i do to make the relationship not to feel boring. Friendship is very important to maintain the relationship because this relationship doesn't require to both partners to be too much attached that other may feel restricted.
@balasri (26537)
• India
14 Jun 09
I will take my girls to a new destination to refresh the mood.A new place where we can have a chance to talk about the new place and subject.We can try the new food there too.A change of scene is always good thing to enliven a a kind of stale relationship.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
Hi hanah87, I think it happens to all relationship, but it's just fleeting moments, when you both don't see each other, both are busy, or nothing to talk about anymore, so many reasons. But it's just up to you and your partner to talk about it, usually there are reason why it becomes this way. The love will still be there, as always, but it's how you both being honest about what you feel. Are you just lonely? if it's only loneliness if you only want to rekindle the feelings again. It's only feelings and emotions what we feel that bothers as most. One of you should start the feeling again of laughing together it's just being together I think to keep the love not boring. Have a nice day to you!
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
it is true that not all relationships will always be in cloud nine. there will always be times of shady clouds in the relationship. if this happens, then i would like to remind myself of my decision to get into a relationship with my partner. if the relationship becomes boring, probably i am a boring person. i dont want to blame the relationship because it was my decision to get into it. i will reflect on myself and what i can do to better it. then i'll talk it out with my partner.
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
10 Jun 09
hi hanah, if it is real friendship, you must not feel bore and the other also must not feel bore, at is corret?