Can you really be in love with two people at the sametime?

United States
June 10, 2009 3:10pm CST
If you are attracted to two people and you've been really spending time getting to know both of them equally then I think that you can be. I also feel that you can be because how do yo put a limit on how many people that you can be in love with?
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• United States
12 Jun 09
it may get complicated but I believe you can fall in love with two people at the same time.each person attracts you. You are lucky and unlucky at the same time. it will be real hard to give them the right amount of time.That's what I mean by complicated.
@sugarlen (138)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
Yes definitely you can be in love even with a lot of people, however, there are degrees of love that you put in every person.. It simply varies now on how you intend to love the person you really wanted, the amount of time you want to spend with her.. the unconditional love and care that you may want to share... But definitely it is nice to focus one your one true love so that she reciprocates the kind of love you give her... good luck!
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
I do believe that you can fall in love with two people at the same time but on a different degree. What i mean is that, you may feel love for both of the person but one will be much greater than the other one. i would advise not to do it since you may be ending up hurting all the three of you just incase.
@elghrasya (501)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
There is a quote saying if you are inlove with two people and you are going to choose one, choose number two because you will not love another one if you really love the first one. So for me like other comment you can like two people at the same time but the level of love or feelings is different in some degrees.
• India
11 Jun 09
You can be attracted to any number of people. But love is totally a different thing, it is above attraction, though initially starts with attraction. I will love only one person whom my heart gives highest priority to. And no way go around two people because I know very well what is love and what is attraction. I don't think we can justify ourselves loving two people at the same time. Because at last you have to choose one.
@rsa101 (22783)
• Philippines
11 Jun 09
I guess ultimately you'll have to decide to one that is greater than the other. i guess you cannot say you love them equally there is at one point a better lover than the other. Attraction does not guarantee that you are indeed in love so if you are just attracted to both then I would say that can really happen and it happens to many. Being in love is a different level already it means there is only one that you can truly love over the other. That may be the toughest decision you have to make.
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
I experienced this before. It is really fun when you are in love with two people at the same time because you get to be creative. You should balance that love that you feel to both of them. What's advantageous about it is if you are hurt, you surely have someone to lean on if the other one is not around. Also, it is the best if the two of them knows each other and acknowledge your love to both of them. Problem will only arise once the two person you are in love with are fighting and then they will let you choose which one do you really love more. The result would be devastating. It's either you choose one and hurt the other or don't choose any of them which will hurt you... Anyways, it's always up to you.. So, where will you be, you hurt the one you love or you're hurt while letting go to both of them?
@doggyhouz (548)
• United States
10 Jun 09
Yes I think you can. My girlfriend I currently have I've been with for 4 years. Now, i've been out of high school for about 7 years. During high school I had a girlfriend that I was with for about 3 years and we ended because I moved away from college. Just recently she came back to our city we both grow up. Now I am not a cheater but I do feel a connection with another women that I also have with my girlfriend. Now having this experience isn't that I choose it. It happened in a long time span to even experience this glimpse feeling when around my EX. People that claim it without time passing... well I don't have an opinion for that; but It can happen.
@glesil_00 (1143)
• Philippines
10 Jun 09
In my experience i can not even the two person are not with me the same time or far from me. I have known two person one is more than one year and other is just a days. I feel much more comfortable to know more the one i know recently. I am comparing two of them and they are both good for me. But i gave up the one i know for long time and i don't have regrets with it. I can say that in my case i want to know one and stick with it.
@nympha687 (940)
• United States
10 Jun 09
You could like two people at the same time but not of the same degree. One has to be greater than the other.