How is your way in argue with somebody? Calm or you will screem a lot?

Diplomacy is the best policy.

If an argument erupts between my wife and I, I start out in a low-toned voice when I speak, but if she is yelling at me and using profanity towards me, I get loud at her, but I do not use profanity towards her in an abusive way, she does though.

I am calm when someone wants to argue with me. I always keep my hand up meaning "talk to the hand". I hate arguments, because there is no winner in most arguments. When people start nonsense arguments I am out from the conversation. I like creative discussion, not nonsense arguments....

First let me say that I hate arguments. They are a waste of time and energy. We all have a right to our own opinion about something but if we have to argue about it then maybe our opinion is not so good after all. I never scream or raise my voice if someone is trying to argue. I feel that the one who raises the voice has lost. When a person does start raising their voice I just smile, a nice sweet smile straight at them and as you say that makes them wilder but that's their problem not mine. I never call people names either. What's the point? If someone calls me stupid or dumb or whatever I would respond with 'and you are still wasting your time talking to a stupid person? Doesn't that make you even more stupid? '. I spent some time with a person who had a very harsh temper. He flew off the handle for nothing and I know he got even more angry because I did not react how he expected me too One day he took off a shoe to throw it at me and I just looked at him waiting for it to hit me (hoping it wouldn't but...). I closed my eyes just as he launched it and didn't see that right at the last minute he had changed his mind, realised what he was doing and didn't let go. I smiled at him and told him 'The End' and packed his bags for him there and then

I try no to argue too much,as i find that trying to talk before things mount up is alot easier.If talking dont work i tend to raise my voice and either walk away or i do get rather loud and verbal.The thing i do tend to say now adays is the words my children would use that is "what ever" which i do know winds alot of people up.Then i go for a walk to calm myself down.

Im calm..but when im totally pissed off. Gosh! hahahaha... I will just leave you. Cause if you force to have this talk when you are mad. You will not resolve the prob. Better talk again when both of you are kinda cool.

I like to stay as calm as possible, because it makes the person who screams and yells look like a real idiot. LOL

I argue with calmness when I am angry. I don't shout, throw out things to someone or even use foul words, thats not me. There are times that I even laugh when I am angry or try to be funny (with a little sarcasm) thats why my partner says that looks like I am not angry. I like to talk about the problem and look for a possible solution. I like diplomatic things.

I can be either calm or not calm, depend on my mood. I always have mood swing but somebody has told me that I'm kind a person who will show the truth and will stand up for what I think its right. But as overall, I'm kind a person as much as I can, I will ignore the thing that hurt until when I don't know. I wish I could just say what I don;t like, but sadly, I'm not, unless I've been provoked badly, then me myself don;t know what I capable of doing.

The last time I'm argue with someone, that guy said that we will not be friends anymore. But then, he accused us something wrong and the next day, I say sorry and it happened five months ago and until now, we never talk to each other. During the argument, I did raised my voice and when it necessary, I do raised my voice. I'm kind emotional. SO that's why as long as I can bear something bad, I will be quite, and keep it in my heart, or if not, I do not know what my mouth will say.

my style of argue depends on various subjects. 1) the standard of my opponent. is he/she belongs to same category of mine or not? i always try to find out it. 2) the subject matter of argument. serious or just light. 3) the time, am i busy or not? 4) the status of my mind. are there serious something running on my mind? if everything is positive, then i am too calm to argue and if something wrong then i may be angry with him/her . thanks.

Usually I not good at arguing but if i can't take it anymore I tend to scream and throw away stuff whatever i see.