false dream

June 12, 2009 12:51am CST
one day i dreamt that my boyfriend is betraying me and when i woke i didn't call him or sms him as i felt bad...i wanted to leave him also as the dream started to torment me...till now i'm not talking to him and don't even know what to do?/but the fact is that i love him a lot...please help me to save my love....
6 responses
• United States
14 Jun 09
Dreams can feel so real. I have often woke from a dream and felt just like it was true. It's usually coming from a fear you have in real life. Maybe some insecurities. Sometimes I begin to feel like my husband deserves better than me and even though it's a fleeting moment in my thoughts, it stays with me and comes out in my dreams. The best way to make myself feel better is to tell my husband my dream, and get that reassurance I must be needing. It always ends very sweet with my darling feeling much loved and me too. Good luck and please, tell that lucky guy how much you love him and you never want to lose him. :)
@lelin1123 (15635)
• Puerto Rico
13 Jun 09
This has happened to me more than a few times. You wake up feeling strange and you actually feel like it really happened whatever the dream was. When you talk to your husband or boyfriend you are talking to him with attitude. I have not let a dream like that torment me though to the point of not talking to him. - you have to let it go it was a dream. Its not real, let him know what happen, tell him the dream you had and your feeling concerning the dream. But you have to call him already especially if you love him.
@donsky14 (5960)
• Philippines
12 Jun 09
Most of the times dreams are not true kamisha. So, there's a big chance that your ignoring your boyfriend for nothing. I've had those dreams before about my boyfriend, and I do feel bad about it, but I talk to my boyfriend about it and let him know how I feel. Why not try the same thing?
@med889 (5952)
12 Jun 09
Hello there! Well I think it is not right to bahave with someone like this just because Of a dream you have ha recently. You cannot trust the dream as it is, Maybe the dream meant something else. How can you leave someone you love just because you had a dream of betrayal from his part. You cannot judge him for something which he has not done in reality.
@daliaj (5681)
• India
12 Jun 09
A dream is a dream and you don't have to take it to real life. You say that you love your bf a lot, so just forget about the dream. It is not real. I have seen dreams in which my grand father is very sick and dying, but he is even healthy now. So, you should not mix a dream and real life. Infact, once I had a dream in which my husband betrayed me. I talked about this this dream to my husband the next day morning and he made fun of me. We laughted on it and forgot it. Hope and pray you will be able to come out of it.
@kvarun88 (275)
• India
12 Jun 09
dreams trying to torment u..?? well i wuld suggest u to call ur boyfriend or else jus go out wid him hav a nice date and sort out ur issues. things can only become bad if u dont talk to him..!