my friend hasn't recovered yet from her ex boyfriend... i'm worried...

By eM
@eLsMarie (4346)
Philippines
June 13, 2009 5:48am CST
hi friends please help me... it's been three consecutive years now and my friend is still hoping for his ex lover to be with her. the story goes like this: my friend was a hottie in our campus. a lot of guys were longing to be with her and i thought that she won't fall for any of those guys. until such time, she found the man of her dreams (according to her). they were in a relationship for 2 years and they broke up for a reason that her ex wants her out of our group (set of friends). our friend chose to be with us. months came, she found out that her ex and his new girl are expecting to have a baby. my friend almost lost her control and attempted to commit suicide. two years after, my friend is still yearning for that guy to be with her again. should i be guilty for the being the caused of their break up before? i mean... me and my other friends were into so much guilt.
2 responses
@xyzxgt (89)
• China
13 Jun 09
Hello,eLsMarie!I do not think you should be guilty for the whole thing.I do not know why your friend ex-BF wants her to be out of your group.But the choice is in your friend's hands.You do not compel her to be with you.I think what you can do now is to move her out of distress and help her live happily.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
13 Jun 09
well... i also don't have any idea why her bf wants us out of my friend's life... tnx for your reply... :(
@luna198 (96)
• China
13 Jun 09
Hi,i'm sorry to hear this,but now,you should do something for your friend,you couldn't have no ideals.And i think time will heal all,let her to make new friends,even new boyfriends~It may be well soon~