Have you ever make any decisions that are crucial in your life?
By caesarin
@caesarin (1089)
Indonesia
June 14, 2009 2:08am CST
I did. It was when I decided to disengage my former fiancee and married my husband =)
It was not like me to decide something BIG like that. My father disagreed because he didn't know what to act to my ex-fiancee's family, my brothers were worried whether my husband was really serious about having a serious relationship with me. Aside the pros and the cons around me, I knew that they only concern whether I'm making the right decision, whether I'm going to regret it.
I married my husband about 2 years after we first met. And we have 2 little daughters now. There are ups and downs and we're just married for 4 years and still long way to go. But I never regret marrying my husband like people worried about.
1 response
@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
14 Jun 09
You did well not to marry your former fiancee beacuse in your heart you knew it would have been the wrong decison. I think you did wonderfully not to let any of the members of your family influence you. You married your husband because you knew that would be the right choice. Only you had feelings that counted in that decison. It is excellent that you have two daughters. You are doing well to make sure your marriage works.
I was working for a ship brokers when I was made redundant. I let out my cottage and got a working holiday visa for Australia. I bought an airline ticket and set off around the world. I was aged 20 years old and I came home over a year later. I met my ex husband in Australia and we had one son. He and I both became teachers. I am a primary school teacher in my home country and he is an English teacher in Asia.
@caesarin (1089)
• Indonesia
14 Jun 09
Hi maximax8. That's what I'm talking about. Despite the fact that I had hurt my ex-fiancee's feeling, it's my life that really counts. Wounds will heal (I know it's easy just to say it).
I kept telling my family that it is my life I'm talking about. Maybe they never expect to make such decision, that's why I call it crucial.
I was a calm person, I didn't argue, I was quite. So you must never expect that someone like me would make such a decision to cancel an engagement. LOL!
Anyway, I'm grateful for the decision I've made.


