what will you do if your friends are suddenly drifting away from you?

Philippines
June 15, 2009 3:11am CST
Don't get me wrong, I didn't have a fight with my friends. It's just that we're no longer close with each other anymore. We seldom text and I almost got no news from them. We're still okay though I can say that. Well I understand that we have different lives now. After graduating from college. It was just very different in high school. What will I do to reach out? How can we be super friends again? Where is that friendship that we have before?
2 responses
• United States
15 Jun 09
I have the same problem. this is how i manage it. I do the calls I dont care what is their reasons where they hardly call me but a make sure I play my role. I realizes that some of them have job that is tasking, I appreciate them i did not allow that to disturb me. If i am in their shoes I will do thesame.
@babshish (1387)
• India
15 Jun 09
Hi Dear, Somestimes this happens when other things comes on priority and distance keeps on growing between friends. Doesn't matter that you had fight with him/her or something went wrong, its just because of busyness in owns world, may result in this. College life is something different then the life in real world, where you have your own responsiblities and goals, where as in college its always friends, canteen and then studies, so friends spent more time with each other. If you really miss them, then take the step to get in touch with them at regular intervals and try to share your thoughts on old days in college, make them feel that you are still there for them whenever they feel and want some one for shareing. Hope this helps. All the best.