love between couples

China
June 15, 2009 8:59pm CST
I have married for more than 3 years and my son is growing up. My husband and I knew each other when we were at university. So it is a long time that we know each other. Now sometimes I find we two have no Romantic atmosphere. Is this all because our baby? No! Sometimes I found I can not bear my husband,but sometimes I found I did a good decision to marry him. Do all the 80s have the same feeling? Tell me how to manage my marriage; and how to creat a happy family. Thanks
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@rsa101 (22979)
• Philippines
16 Jun 09
Well i guess most couples are experiencing this kind of difficulties in their married life. Some call this as spice of life. In marriage there is really no perfect partnership that exist. At some point in their married lives I am pretty sure they will come a time that they would not be able to bear each other but what is important in the end they still find themselves stuck together. There is no exact science as to how to manage a marriage it is different from couple to couple and you exactly have to know your partner and most of us do not know him so I guess it is up to you on how to manage your marriage. For as long as Love is burning I still believe that the marriage will stay afloat.
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• China
19 Jun 09
yes, you are right. Sometimes you find you can not bear him, but at last, you still find you need him so much. Is this love? I am really confused^.^ However, anyway, life is life, do not be so serious, right?
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@rsa101 (22979)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
I guess it can still be called love since you can bear your partner after all. I say stay put where you are and start learning the new things you discover from him Whether you like them or not.