What are you top 3 tips for being a happier person?

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United States
June 16, 2009 2:58pm CST
Most people long to be as happy as possible. What are your personal top 3 tips for being a happier person? Mine are:Learn to love yourself Believe in something worthwhile to you Help others--it is a very "feel good" thing to do
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@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
You must have.. 1. God... 2. Love... 3. Friends.... I placed God to number 1 because He is the source of true happiness.
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
16 Jun 09
Mine are not to take things for granted, I think most of us are guilty of this, that we take so much for granted that we don't realize what we had until we lose it. Secondly appreciating what mother nature has given us and enjoying our surrounds, like listening to birdsong, seeing the sunset, smelling freshly cut grass, seeing rainbows, and seeing the leaves change colour in fall. And finally grabbing every opportunity that comes your way so that when you get old you can look back with fondness at everything you have achieved just by taking the opportunity and enjoying every moment life has to offer.
• United States
16 Jun 09
Hello Wolfie These are such wonderful answers. Nature is always there for free and is full of amazing things...a definite happiness booster. I agree, too, that we should never take life or people for granted, but appreciate it all. Thank you for your insight. Karen
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@wolfie34 (26771)
• United Kingdom
20 Jun 09
Thank you for the best response, appreciated.
• United States
21 Jun 09
You're very welcome, Wolfie.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
16 Jun 09
My three tips are: Understanding that I am in charge of my own happiness. doing for others for no other reward than giving, and for me being with animals.
• United States
16 Jun 09
Excellent tips, Pat. It took me years to quit "depending" on things or people outside myself to make me happy. As you said, that is our own responsibilty. Karen
@chillpill90 (1936)
16 Jun 09
well i would say : 1) be positive on everything that happens 2)think before you act 3)dont take people for granted
• United States
16 Jun 09
These are great tips. A positive outlook always helps, and no one should be taken for granted. And yes, thinking before we act can save a lot of grief! Karen
• United States
17 Jun 09
My top 3 tips for being a happier person are: 1) To remember that happiness starts within yourself 2) Always look for the good even in a bad situation 3) Do something nice for someone each day. What seems like a trivial thing to us could mean the world to someone else. flutterby
• United States
17 Jun 09
These are excellent suggestions. Yes, our happiness is up to us, not others. And always there is a positive or a blessing, even in the worst of times. And none of us may realize the impact we really have on another, so we should indeed be kind and helpful. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
@myx_03 (540)
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
You must have.. 1. God... 2. Love... 3. Friends.... I placed God to number 1 because He is the source of true happiness.
• United States
21 Jun 09
I have to agree...all good things have their origins with God. Thank you for sharing your tips! Karen
• United States
16 Jun 09
I think my three tips would be: live with no regrets, be happy and love yourself, be happy and love those around you
• United States
16 Jun 09
Living in the moment and embracing it all. THank you for adding your happiness formula to the discussion :) Karen