Ugh! Men are gross...

United States
June 16, 2009 6:04pm CST
Why is it that every time I meet a financially secure man in his forties he wants me to do the most terrible, disgusting, awful things... I mean just thinking about the level of depravity makes me want to vomit. This guy wants me to... cook and clean.
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@kerriannc (4279)
• Jamaica
16 Jun 09
What is wrong in cooking and cleaning for the man who is taking quality care of you. If the man is making you happy and all he asked for is some good food and his house clean then you can do that but if it is vice versa then my dear run as far as possible from him.
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• United States
17 Jun 09
There is NOTHING wrong with taking care of a man that is taking care of you, but this old fart just wants to touch my naughty bits... Its not like he's paying the bills and he expects me to cook and clean for him at his house?I don't think so. Thats what wives are for... Not girls in their twenties.
• United States
17 Jun 09
LOL! You are funny. No wives in their twenties? So let me get it straight.....I go work for you every day so you have food, nice clothes, a nice car, vacations etc, etc, etc, but i don't get anything in return (but insults)....woow where do i sign up....LOL silly girl....go for the younger less financially stable guys...oh they probably want to touch your naughties too.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
11 Apr 10
I do really find this topic a bit funny. I have a huge smile written all over my face. You really made my day. Not all men are like that and since you describe him as rich and already in almost senior years he expect you to take care of him. The two of you can always hire a good cook and a someone to do the laundry and clean the house. He just want a companion and I think you just misunderstood him. Since he is already financially secure you are lucky indeed. Maybe the two of you could build a long lasting relationship if you just give him a chance.
@Geomos (322)
• South Africa
17 Jun 09
Would it be any different if the guy was young and financially insecure? You must be meeting with the wrong type of financially secure men because a financially secure man surely would have the finances to buy an automatic dish washer and all the other modern appliances that go with being financially secure. I can promise you we are not all gross ;-)
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
10 Apr 10
I think it's the whole mommy thing...guys are always looking for a woman like their mom...someone to cook, clean, take care of the kids...of course they also want the benefits of being able to fool around (hopefully that isn't connected to the mommy thing). I think they just like to be taken care of...kind of like big babies LOL [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]
• Italy
17 Jun 09
In my opinion, if you want to live a good life with his money and without going to work, it's right that he want that you cook and clean... It's a way to pay back what he give to you...
• Australia
18 Jun 09
GEE!!! I can cook, clean, touch your naughty bits, even bathe ya, all I ask is one day off a week to catch my breath, and visit my girlfriend.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
17 Jun 09
Yes, it is the most disgusting thing anyone can ask woman to do... They misunderstand the difference between lover and cleaning lady...
@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
17 Jun 09
So you are the woman with the naughty bits. I have been looking for a woman that has those all my life and I begin to think they didn't exist. Wow! No wander he wants you to cook and clean. I mean you are one in a million.