Are you sensitive person ??

Qatar
June 17, 2009 8:28am CST
During the day in work and even home we would face sensitive people around us that we may treat them in a special way to keep them feel good and never be sad coz they are sensitive and ya they always look strong from outside ,well that wonders me a lot......coz you wouldn't know that they are sensitive till they turn sad or cry in some situation lol what to do ?? so, how would you deal with sensitive people coz sometimes they are annoying they get sad for silly reasons , but are you sensitive person ??
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20 responses
• India
18 Jun 09
i think i am a very senstive person!! but i also hate that charecter of mine..coz we never when they will become angry or sad..these days i m tryi to get rid of this habit..hope i will be able to succed in that..
• Qatar
18 Jun 09
Hi ^^ don't worry josephjoy the good thing is you figure out that being sensitive is wrong and you try to change that is really good and to change is easy coz you want to change , you are the one who can control !! I wish you good luck and you will succeed !!
• India
19 Jun 09
Hi Novelist..thanks for your comment and your appreciation..yea i wanted to change at the earliest..I always hated this character of mine. i used to get angry at small things anf hence lost many friends..i used to react very sharply for the same too..lokki back now, i thnk i shdnt hve done all that
@ezway9 (35)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 09
hi ! joseph. There's a very important on every single mindset of people. What actually can help us is ours religious believe and positive minded. Don't worry about our journey. Someone is guiding us to become a powerful and brave person. My father is the best coach of mylife.. YEAH !!!!!!!!!!!
@ivana980 (156)
• Italy
17 Jun 09
I am a very sensitive person, but in the same time i'm so strong to help people that are sick, i worked to the hospital for two years like a nurse assistent, and i saw many bad thinghs, many sick people and sad people, It is so hard to see people cry, people die... but i'm strong too because i helped them so much..
• United States
17 Jun 09
sometimes i am lol
• Qatar
18 Jun 09
hi ivana980 ^^ ya you are absolutely strong !! being as a nurse in such a place make the the whole difference !! but, try not calling your self very sensitive ,coz you may increase that or you may not distinguish as sensitive person coz you chose to be a nurse from the beginning and that means strength !! I wish you good luck in your work
@ivana980 (156)
• Italy
18 Jun 09
Thank you so much :-)
• Indonesia
17 Jun 09
I only become sensitive every time my PMS knocked in :) Other than that, I always feel good. I laughed a lot. I don't care what people may say about me as long as they don't harm me. I have one close friend that was sensitive. So to make her feel good, I always make funny jokes that I can think of. But if my sensitive moment came, it's best to avoid her or else we end up giving cold stare at each other.
• Qatar
18 Jun 09
hi ingridrepi ^_^ oh really !! if you think that is ok to be sensitive in some time and you feel good with it till now thats mean you live with this kind of feature when ever it comes you be very welcome to it so, that way may harm your personality in along run coz you would work and deal with easy going people in your life who avoid dealing with sensitive person ,but I notice that you have great ideas telling jokes to your friends and lough thats good I wish you good luck
• Indonesia
18 Jun 09
But it's only for a short short period of time...and it's not my fault...it's my hormones! darn it!:)
@Akila016 (70)
• China
18 Jun 09
Yes,I am,I think.Sometimes I think too much for a joke.I may get angry for friends' joking.They even don't know why.I think it relate with my inconfidence. I guest they're laughing at me when they're kidding.
• Qatar
18 Jun 09
hi Akila016 no don't feel in this way !! be easy going with your friends ,even others and what if they laugh in you , its ok they are your friends not strangers I'll teach you words to say when you feel of something like that say : " take it easy , take it easy coz who cares anyway "
• China
18 Jun 09
i think i am a sensitive person,i don't think it is a good personality. i try to change this bad personality for all the time .but unfortunately i cann't still change this .maybe i am innate with this
• Qatar
18 Jun 09
hi voicewithin :) no don't worry its ok you can change , perhaps you just need the skills to teach your self how to change and you are the one who can control the way yourself feel and mange everything , I hope you good luck coz as long you know that being sensitive is wrong this is the first step so ,you can go further !! thanks for sharing
@sid556 (30989)
• United States
18 Jun 09
I'm sensitive but i'm not fragile by any means. I'm sensitive because I have very strong feelings about things. I don't need anyone to tiptoe around me to make sure I don't get hurt because I am also very strong. Just don't be a jerk or mean or unfair and i'm fine. If you treat me poorly or talk dirt about me, I will either get angry or sad but I'll be fine. If you find me annoying then we wouldn't be good friends anyway because I find people that are insensitive and rude and uncaring very annoying also. We'd probably just get on each others nerves....alot.
• Qatar
18 Jun 09
hi sid556 ya you are right people must treat each other in fair way and without being rude this is sound natural to me but, I'm talking about of being sensitive even if there is nothing drives to be just as a bad habit and easily broken and ya me too I hate people who are careless say what ever that want to say !! thanks sid556
@xannebull (1800)
• Philippines
17 Jun 09
if i know that the person is sensitive, then i would watch my words and actions towards her, or else it would be a mess. i am sometimes a sensitive person but i don't get mad easily, i just take everything as a joke and if it insults me, then that would be the time to react for some reason.
• Qatar
18 Jun 09
is really good xannebull to watch or words and action coz we never know they could be somewhere here or there lol me too I'm choosing my words to avoid such a person !! thanks xannebull
• Philippines
17 Jun 09
I can be a sensitive person. Yet I can be a cold-hearted person. The way I look at it is, I have my own problems. I don't have enough time to dwell over other people's issues. But when they are some that is very close to my heart, and they are going through tough times, that's when my sensitivity kicks in. Although I always have open arms. So it really depends.
• Qatar
18 Jun 09
ya right it depends on the person
@lulu1220 (1009)
• United States
17 Jun 09
I am careful in what I say to sensitive people. I know someone like this and I think before I speak. But sometimes it does annoy me. I am not a very sensitive person. I do not cry easily. Only a handful of movies have made me cry. I also don't offend easily.
• Qatar
17 Jun 09
good lulu1220 ya that what I like !! to be strong is the best thing ever I always be careful too with them coz they annoy me and makes me feel not in my usual way !! thanks lulu1220
@Zhizho (1351)
• Indonesia
17 Jun 09
Yes novelist_117.I was a sensitive person in past time.But,now I am trying to be strong person.Hahah.be sensitive person is not good.It's hurt your self.Because always thingking about what are people say that mean it's about you.I was cried when someone tell something that crude (in my opinion) although it was not like that.I can't axcept everything that I was not agree.Ohhh,it's injure your self.I think,to face someone who sensitive is don't talk too much with them.Just listen and tell if they ask you.
• Qatar
17 Jun 09
Hi Zhizho is really good to have a response from you Zhizho , so you have changed this really good too coz being sensitive is bad thing it would effect the personality even the relationship with others , I notice that almost all people hate to be with sensitive kind coz as we all think that the life is easy going so, we don't make it hard on us and ya hahaha me too I always try to keep my self away from those kind of people as you sail just listen and tell if they ask , thats funny thanks my dear
@underdogtoo (9591)
• Philippines
17 Jun 09
I think I treat everybody in a special way in that I give them respect and sometimes I don't get the same respect. I don't mind, I just stay away from them. There are others who are so self-centered they cannot think of others. Are they sensitive? I think they're just immature and selfish. Cheers!!
• Qatar
17 Jun 09
ya I agree with you underdogtoo some of them not deserve much respect and ya me too I always stay away from them but, sensitive I don't so that they are really self-centered perhaps there are !! thanks underdogtoo
@vanities (11410)
• Davao, Philippines
17 Jun 09
depending on the situations and my mood..yeah sometime i am sensitive..well in my part i guess i have to be careful on what i do or say..i mean in givng comments to a given situation where i think the other person is sensitive enough..or cant handle it perfectly..or sometimes say nothing at all..
• Qatar
17 Jun 09
ya me too , sometimes I always be careful in choosing my words for those sensitive people ...I look funny when I try to be so so so sweet with them lol thanks vanities
@nimzia (388)
• India
17 Jun 09
I am a very sensitive one.My sensitive nature gives me a nick name.You know it is mimosa-Touch me not.When i saw anyone crying i too cry with them,that's my nature.
• Qatar
17 Jun 09
wow that sound new to me " mimosa-Touch me not " , but you know my friend nimzia that nature could be really bad nature and that keep people away from you even if they don't tell you !! know that well my friend : " nature can change if its hurt my personality " thanks nimzia
@ezway9 (35)
• Malaysia
13 Jul 09
sensitive is not a great value amongst those co-interact to each other in life. we must sense that joking may help to reduce our pressure during ours works, our family day, ours friend gathering and even in a party time. That is god created us. think like adult, not child.
@glesil_00 (1143)
• Philippines
18 Jun 09
Emotion can be avoided to pop up and sensitivity is not bad if one can control it too and not overdone showing it. Expressing it is soothing and relief to the person but not to the person who see the sensitivity of other. Just let them express it and listen and watch to them, just make them feel that you are sympathizing them in what they feel, because if you are in that situation you also need someone to listen and understand you.
@agrim94 (3809)
• India
18 Jun 09
Hi novelist, yes i am quite a sensitive person and i can be hurt very easily. A remark here or there and i am hurt . Though i am trying to get over it and learning not to show up my hurt as no one understands the hurt or care about it. Yes you are right i do get hurt sometimes for silly reasons but i have learnt not to hold it against anyone if i am hurt.
@airakumar (1555)
• India
18 Jun 09
Yes, I am lil' sensitive in nature. I don't like when our elders or any other elders cries..
• India
18 Jun 09
hii friend nice to meet you here..I am not much sensitive..I dont get hurted for a small things and i had met many sensitive people that they will be hurted for a silly things and they will be thinking deeply for small things and they will be sad..so we must also be carefull from them..We should be carefull while talking with them..happy mylotting dear friend..have a nice day..cheers..
@ezway9 (35)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 09
well, it's not easily to handle most considerable sensitive person. But I got one great idea to come. Normally, sensitive people, you can't talk to directly. Try to be more sensible, give that person a suggestion or yours opinions. He or she may feel goods when we keep calm and don't arguing. Take it easy and be confidence always!
• United States
17 Jun 09
I'm sensitive sometimes and to deal with sensitive people just try not insult them and if they do get sad try to make them happy.