Breaking up wih an unfaithful girlfriend

You can do that torch her house and then what's next? You may end up in jail for that but that girl might just continue on loving her lover and you suffering from the consequences of your actions. The second option, though bitter and hard is the best option to follow. Moving on with your life is the next thing to do. Just be grateful that at least she became honest with herself and to you by telling you before you finally made marital vows. Just look at that way, you are free from the betrayal since she got honest with you. Also just think that "The truth shall set you free". Imagine if she said that during your wedding or after that would have been a big disgrace on your part. There are many reasons for you to be happy about your life you are given a clean slate to find a girl that will honestly love you and be faithful to you. Make this a starting point, a second chance in life to make things right. Let her go and be happy with her choice.

I feel sorry for what you experienced. it's really frustrating. However as you said you saw it happened a lot on TV. in fact in our real life it happens every day. I think you can learn from this and go on your road. At last you will find a girl who loves you and you love her too. Not many people can find their true love just in one time. Most of us should try and fail and try again, until success. it's life. I don't think you should be angry with the girl. I met a man, who's wife divorced him and married his best friend. Now they are still friends. Go out together and have holidays sometimes. So be tolerant with the girl. if you loved her before you can wish her to have her happiness. I'm sure she will wish you too. happy mylotting.