What is wrong with the relationship?
@chaynezjapanez (38)
Philippines
June 18, 2009 4:11am CST
When you found out that your boyfriend had an account on the site similar to lets say friendster or facebook (i will not mention the real site to avoid guys goin there..LOL) then he lies about his profile like his age and status? And worst of all he commented that he is glad to be on that site bec of the many beautiful young girls and asking for their numbers so that he could call any of them at once..btw the gf is young and smart as well.. while bf is oldies but rich.. who do you think wrong inlove?what should the perfect way to escape and whose lost?.. this story i really sad isn't it?
3 responses
@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
18 Jun 09
I'm gonna have to agree with Dee on this once - I think that May-December love affairs rarely work. I'm not discounting the possibility, but more often than not, they DO NOT work! Mainly for the reason Dee said - once she's old and wrinkly, he's going to go around looking for some younger prey!
Same thing for those affairs that began with the husband leaving the wife for someone else. That someone else is not thinking clearly - because if he can do it to his ex-wife, what makes you think he won't do it to you!
She should leave him, move on! Go get someone her own age, for goodness sake.
@chaynezjapanez (38)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
Hi there..thanks for the response however i feel that we've been all used to say and comment like the same way you said and dee.. but why not give a may december affair a break?..after all what am i askin is what is wrong with the relationship???..they had been inlove and steady for 3 yrs. right? may-december affair is not actually the issue here.. lets give gf a good reason to think whats wrong, what might be the possible reason.. gf is smart enough to know when and how to move on..
@khayshenz (1384)
• United States
20 Jun 09
For the sake of argument, let's just say that they're the same age. See- the problem with love is love itself. I'm not a skeptic of love (because I'm in-love), but who's to say that he was faithful for all those three years that they've been together? Women (and men) are deceived all the time - especially when they think they're in-love.
If he's so in love with her as you claim - why is he goin' around asking young girlS (plural - not just one girl) for their numbers and talking to them?
Maybe there's nothing wrong with her - there's something wrong with him (he clearly doesn't want to settle down). And if your friend is so smart - she'll know that it's time to walk away from this one (unless she's attracted to the $$).
@chaynezjapanez (38)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
hi, thankz again for dropping by..and for giving a good reason, which i think gf would accept..LOL.. gf actually have moved on and now she is inlove again, the pain has been cured already..thankz..
@Lance_Riyal (3)
• Philippines
24 Jun 09
The way i saw the situation of your friend?? is she your friend? ..i think that his man feel lonely bec they were far from each other.
