What would you do if you found out that your friend is cheating on her husband?
By larish
@larish (2263)
Philippines
June 18, 2009 9:36pm CST
I have a friend who is also my co-worker whom I found out yesterday that has a secret relationship with her boss. When I confronted her to stop it but she told me that she was no longer with her husband. I really don't know what to do. Her husband is also a dear friend for the past 11 years. I plan to ignore what is happening but I do pity her husband if he found out. Help! need your advise/opinion on this.
2 responses
@med889 (5940)
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19 Jun 09
If she is telling you that she is no more with her husband when she is lying to you then I think she is indirectly telling you to do not interfere in her personal life. You have done your job of a good friend by telling her that what she is doing is not good but when she told you to do not interfere indirectly then I think you should not be continuing to do so. You are a good friend to her husband , now if you go to tell him, the other woman might think you are a betrayer while you are not and you are doing only something to save a relationship. But she will not take it this way but she might later blame you for something which you have not done so think about it.
@mypriv8link (180)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
I think that whatever is going on between the couple, it should stay as their business. However, if one asks for advise, then you tell them its not the most logical decision they made. Getting out of a relationship when its difficult to patch up i guess is reasonable but they should split up first before delving into another relationship. Betrayal is the hardest thing to forgive.
