When facing a major decision....

@becdmd (704)
Philippines
June 19, 2009 3:06am CST
when I face a major decision in life...I usually discuss it with others, I often get a survey of their answers to gather information to help with my decisions, I don't like deciding on my own because, I know that I need advice of other people so that my plans will succeed. How about you when facing a major decision, do you tend to discuss it with others and get their input or do you decide on your own? why?
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@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
19 Jun 09
Yes,same with me.When i face a big problem,i always discuss with my family or my friends.I dont know how to make and choose the best decision.Maybe i am too depend to other people's decision.I hope i can make my own decision...
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
you can make your own decision by having a wise discernment of who's got the best advice. Making our own big decision is kind of risky.
@Wismay (2037)
• India
19 Jun 09
Usually in this kind of situation I rely on books and analyze by myself and take a decision. I don't feel comfortable discussing with others. And most of the time they can't help because they take it from their own experience and view. I do believe that some experinced and wise people can help but it is hard to find such people when you need them.
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
I understand your situation, I've also relied on books when I got no one else to turn to, its also helpful somehow, but I've chose a book that I know that is reliable, a devotional book may do, for it has a lot of life's lessons in life. Don't lose hope there are still people out there you can rely on. seek for them.