I don't want your money!!!

June 19, 2009 11:36am CST
Ok so here's the latest scoop from my camp. I got a man, a very wealthy business rich man, who has been sniffing up my door and trying to persuade me to be his woman. The realty is he is not physically attractive (his stomach is bigger than a beer drum!) and he usually uses his riches to get his women, and well I just don't find him interesting in other aspects. For some reason, I have become a pain to him because I refused his numerous offers and well the poor sod is in a bit depression as he doesn't understand why I keep telling him "I don't want your money, I sincerely do not want anything from you!" Now every time I say NO, he increases his offer, first he dumps a Mercedes at my front gate, I tell him no, then he sends me a deed to one of his houses with my name on it, I say no.. and well today I checked my bank balance and wow! it was way above what's usually in there (to be exact £500,000 more).. I was furious and demanded that he take his money back as I don't want it.. (weird eh?) But no amount of money can by my feelings.. if they are not there for you then move on to the next dame! Now I know you guys are gonna think.. What the %^%*??? but in all sincerity gents, money is good but it will never buy something as priceless as my love for you.. so now I'm stuck with all this crap as I don't usually want free stuff that I haven't labored for.. So tell me, if you were in my shoes, how would you go about this?
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19 responses
@vjsinduja (1035)
• Sri Lanka
19 Jun 09
I agree with u . A person cannot buy another a person love for money. It has no value.What I would suggest is withdraw the money he had deposited in account and give it back to him. Haven't u got parents or elders at home to explain him or isn't there any one in his house to talk with about ur probs. Also how did he get to know ur bank acc no to deposit money in ur acc....
19 Jun 09
No, I live alone and don't have much contact with family and well never had an elder.. he's a customer of mine, I designed his logos and business flyers and website so that's how he got my bank details.. I own a desktop publishing company..
@anangf (1148)
• Indonesia
20 Jun 09
Accept his money as a gift or as a reward from his. You doing okay with your jobs and he like and satisfied. And for doing the jobs very well he gave more than usual.
@vjsinduja (1035)
• Sri Lanka
20 Jun 09
Withdraw the money he deposited for u and just throw it on his face. Even in public... doesn't matter i guess.... At least then, hope he realizes that he cannot buy a woman for his money....
@tresiah (10)
• Jamaica
19 Jun 09
My take on this one is, this man really interested in you. How many rich men do you think will throw these offers at you? Not many. Stick a pin, you dislike this man because of his image God did not make everybody perfect. He really wants to be with you, you said you don't want stuff that you never laboured for, in all means you will always receive as long as you give, maybe god sent this man to be with you and you are blind eye to him. Give this man a chance and see what he's made of. When ever you see someone who tries to speak to you and not matter what you tell the person, and the person continue to get to you. take a chance.
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19 Jun 09
Well I appreciate you backing him up but no thanks. In order for me to consider a relationship I first have to be attracted to you physically, because that is what 95% of the relationship will be.. Now I don't find him attractive at all, plus he's old enough to be my grandad and well just not my type.. I will never settle for something I'm not happy with.. He's a good business man and well a divorced father of three kids so ah ah.. not thanks.. don't want any of his problems! and I don't think God sent him.. I think its a temptation for me to be lured away from God so no thank you, I'll pass.. But thank you for your input
• Spain
19 Jun 09
I really think that no woman should go for money with some guy (although there´s a bunch of them doing it obviously). And I really don´t understand men paying women......what are they buying??? they know damm good that they are not buying someone who cares for them. So I think they´re throwing their money.
@gicolet (1703)
• United States
19 Jun 09
Wow...that's one very persistent man. Maybe he doesn't take "no" for an answer too...that's kind of scary cause he could get obsessed with you and stalk you. I mean just look at what he's been doing to get your attention? well...he does try to buy your love which is wrong, wrong move. If i were you I would continue to say "no". I think he gets the message but he just choose to be a pain in the butt as you now become somewhat of a challenge to him. He's not used to getting rejections. Be careful though...don't be nasty to him or anything like that..he could do something bad with his money. I wish he'd use some of it though to get a physical makeover and power diet to lose that big stomach...maybe then you could learn to like him. LOL One question: How did he know your bank account #?
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19 Jun 09
He's a customer of mine.. I run a desktop publishing company so I design got a contract to redesign all his business logos, websites flyers and the like.. I also market his company.. well one of his many companies, so thats how he has my bank details as everything is done electronically.. Yes I think I have become a challenge but I dont think he can stalk me lol.. he's too much of a puppy dog.. he' one of them guys that loves being submissive to women.. so he really is a sad case in his private life
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
19 Jun 09
Lol @ that fat pig!! I really think you are going right, transfer the money back into his account and deny to all those mouth-watering offers. I read he is a wealthy "businessman". I think he's trying to deal with you. He's trying to buy a woman for those bloody 500000 pounds. A marriage/relations is never about being "affluent", its all about being "affectionate"!! Huh, these richie richs would never get these words into their little heads!!
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19 Jun 09
lol I like the way you call him a fat pig! never thought of that But thank you for your support.. money doesn't rule my world for damn sure..
• United States
20 Jun 09
tell him you love another guy.
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@xannebull (1800)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
i appreciate you for being such a worthy woman, you're right, money can't buy anything especially woman with dignity like you. money can't make you happy in exchange for a man whom you don't love.
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• Philippines
20 Jun 09
give me some of the money.I need it...kidding aside,you have made the right decision.if you don't really like the guy,then by all means stay away from him.you should be with someone who you love because of his great character and personality.those men using money to buy women are desperate.hell,he can buy a lot of gold diggers with his money,no need to persuade someone else.
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• China
20 Jun 09
I agree with you ,we can't be feed by man,as a woman ,we can live by ourself ,and don't depend on man, and see his face ,it is no need .We have the ability to be independent .Money is important ,but it can't buy everything, such as love .If he really love you ,he can't say like that .Hope you are happy !
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@olydove (1209)
• United States
20 Jun 09
Well the first thing I would do is call or go to your bank and tell them to transfer that money right back to the account it came from. Ask them to put a note on there that you will no longer be accepting deposits from this man. Then I would send him a letter to his address and keep a copy of it saying " If you continue to gift me these items knowing I will not take them I will no longer be able to even have a business relationship with you as it is making me feel uncomfortable" If his behavior continues then it is up to you to completely stop all communications with him, and take the proper legal measures to ensure he will not be able to harass you in any way if you so choose. Needless to say I am quite surprised as I didn't think that these sort of things happened in real life LOL truly I thought it was like just a thing that happens in movies where women dream of receiving such gifts and monies. Anyway good for you for not letting him " buy " your love. In the end we can't take that material stuff with us anyhow.
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@hanah87 (1835)
• Malaysia
20 Jun 09
Wow,what a great news!I know it is not good to sell your love but i dont ask you to sell your love.If i be you,i will take the money but i will not give my love for him.It was his fault,who ask he to deposit his money at your bank.I will take the money and dont care about him.Hehe.He can blame you on all this thing if you not accept his love but accept his money because it is his own fault who deposit his money on your account without you know about it.This is just my opinion.I hope you can solve this problem as soon as possible.Have a nice day.Thank you.
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@liuchen63 (270)
• China
19 Jun 09
We women should be independent!We don't need to feed by men and we should be as strong as men.Can money buy everything?No! The money cannot buy a true love!
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@gelay07 (589)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
woow! you hit the jackpot.. naaah. just kidding. i guess, you should be firm and tell him honestly about how you feel and talk to him in serious manner that wont insult him. try to let him understand why you dont like him. thats it..
• Jamaica
20 Jun 09
A person should not use his/her wealth to gain love from another with this said I would like to tell you that even though you see this man unattractive don't you believe that you could actually make a difference in his life. Yes by encouraging him to attend gym and exercise. I would like to asked you one question How does this man get to know your bank account and which bank you associate with? Well my friend opportunities only comes once in a life time so look at the way you can assist him and maybe you can live in comfort and help him to have a long and healthy life.
• China
20 Jun 09
if i were u,now that not plan to love him.give back the money to him. if possible,not meet him either. in fact, one wealthy england man did the similar thing to me, but before,i only consider it as pure friendship.when i found the truth,he gave me the money,and also job,i refused all. i said money is important,but not the most one.
• China
20 Jun 09
The guy has nothing except money .He seems doesn't love you.How terrible .Give the money back to him and tell him you will never love him.
@bamrahkirti (1818)
• India
20 Jun 09
It is really disgusting to tolerate such men who just show off their material things to entice and attract a woman. Just follow my advice,get to know if he is married,tell his wife about all he has been doing with you to get your affection.I think she will handle the case more effectively.
• United States
20 Jun 09
I would respond in the same manner that you are reacting. That's crazy. I've never heard of a man going to that extreme.
@blue65packer (11834)
• United States
19 Jun 09
I' take the money and run! The heck with him! I'd buy a house and a new car with that money! I move to another city where I would buy a house! If asked about the money I'd say it is mine,you gave it to me and I can do what I want with it! That is what I'd do! Then I'd pay off all bills and take a nice long vacation!
@sharkee (63)
• China
19 Jun 09
I would probably keep telling him that I didn't want his money and things. But if he keeps giving them to me then oh well, I will accept them as gifts. I could do with some extra cash.