Why are some men afraid of responsibilty and marriage?

@Azaerus (820)
Philippines
June 19, 2009 1:27pm CST
When I was little I often watch bachelor movies wherein a bunch of guys got stuck with being single because they're afraid theur life will end if they got married. Now, I know some guys who are old enough but still not ready to get married,well yeah they have girlfriends but they still aren't ready for a bigger responsibility. I keep on telling them that they are withholding a great responsibility because they have committed theirselves with their girlfriends...but they keep on saying that they still aren't sure of stuff whether she's the one or not..so what I say is then better be single if nothing is sure.. Does marriage really ends up everything?? Because I really think that yeah for sure it's a new phase of your life to begin with but it's not the end of everything and of fun...it's just the beginning of a new fun coming into your life you just have to learn to share those fun stuff with your better half..
2 responses
@jules67 (2788)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
There is a big difference between men and women. One is men are afraind of the big C, not cancer thou, but COMMITMENT. Men are afraid to take responsibility for their actions. That is already taken. . If a man is not ready to commit, perhaps then that he is still not stable enough to have a family. It could also be that he does not really want to commit. I do know that there will come a time that they will feel the need to settle down. And when that need arises, then it is time to say YES to the big C - Commitment.
@Azaerus (820)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
Some men lacks maturity when it comes to these issue..glad to kow that not all men see the way of things like this...like me...hehe..LOL
@whizkid08 (715)
• India
19 Jun 09
Well, this is indeed true with my friends as well and I think its just their perception that makes them feel so. They try escaping from responsibilities and just want to spend days switching their girlfriends!! Some guys are so mean, and have absurd thinking..
@Azaerus (820)
• Philippines
19 Jun 09
Some men really don't see the potential of fun in marriage..time will come when they'll realize having someone beside them is what they crave for and need...switching girlfriends isn't right every now and then...finding that special someone is the thing..that someone whom you'll spend the rest of your life with..I'm glad I have a girlfriend whom I'm pretty sure I'm going to marry someday..:b