When a lady asks you out.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
United States
4 responses
@rberon1985 (5359)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
This sounds so funny. I'm a guy but I never do that to a girl. I think it will only happen if the lady is really in love with the guy. I can say that she is really frustrated just to be with the guy. In this case, the guy should not take advantage if that happens. If this will happen to me, I will not let the girl pay the bills, its a pride for me. Eventhough she was the one who ask me to go out, i will still be the one to pay the bills or if she do not want, we can share in paying the bills.
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
20 Jun 09
What if you don't make as much money as she does/ would you still insist on paying? i like splitting the bill. That way she gets to pay for some of it and your ride isn't hurt.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
Well i think it's ok. I'm a gentleman but if just to make both of us at ease, why not? It's not really important on who's going to pay right as long as you had a great time. I do make sure that my date had a great time with me. Ok, you pay for the dinner then i pay for the movie. How's that? I think in this way, a bond is developed right? You know, the inhibitions will be lessened in a way that we can be upfront with eachother without really causing uneasiness.
@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
20 Jun 09
That sounds great.it's a good compromise. One pays for dinner , the other the movie.I think it is so old fashioned to assume that a, the man Has to ask you out and b, he has to pay.It isn't fair. I think if two people can split the tab it is so much better.and then there isn't the worry about money, the worry is which restaurant and which movie.
@fishkingback (430)
• China
20 Jun 09
Well,for me,as a man,I'd like to pay the bills when I go out with a lady no matter whether she asks me out or I ask her out,but if she insists that she pays,that would be ok,as long as we both feel comfortable.
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