will you marry the one you love?
June 20, 2009 3:33am CST
Hi, my lotters will you marry the one you love? or will all the love come to the marrige? now i have a gf, and a 10-year-long love story, but i come to the condition that i must marry her before September, or she will leave. and i am 27. and why i am afraid of wedding? and maybe some, any, advice you would give me and happy day! thanks
21 Jun 09
i do not know what you are afraid of. 10 years long story is a precious experience, it is worth cherishing. in my opion,every girl want to marry earlier, especially after 25. marriage is very great for both of you. if you are only for this and give up such a girl you have loved for 10 years. i think it is not a coorect choice. maybe she is just kidding with you!
22 Jun 09
hi friend, i dont think she is kidding. i know that is difficult for both of us to keep a love story for a so long time, and i know it is not correct for me to put back the weeding.but i just dont like the marrige, i dont wann marry with anyone now. i like the frreedom i have now! and thanks for you comments and all the best wolferking!
20 Jun 09
I have been confued with the same question like you. The different thing is that no one woman force me to marry with her. Though you guys have been together for ten years,you want to live with her fou all of your life? You have to think about this question. Now my thinking is that just live with one person for so long time is beyond imagination. Maybe this is because i haven't met the half of mine. Is she the half of yours? Nobody can help you. Maybe your anwer can help you to make decide. Good luck!