for guys, is marrying a virgin a big deal for you?

Philippines
June 20, 2009 11:28am CST
Can you men answer this question and why? Today's modern time, people are more exposed and liberated. More open-minded perhaps. I just want to know if there are few who still value this virginity thing. =) And if there are men who are more open-minded and didn't mind at all if the one their marrying is still virgin or not. Please answer this with honesty.
10 responses
@Ammudoll (549)
• India
2 Aug 09
That's a big deal for me and for most of the indians too. I am virgin and I expect my partner to be virgin. And we believe in one relationship. if we marry a person, then he is the only one to remain in our life forever unless the guy is sin and cruel and harasses his partner for dowry or other issues.
• India
6 Sep 09
For most of the Indian boys like us virginity of the girl is very important even though the boys are not virgin as they need some experience before marriage. We try to remain with the person we married unless the girl is bad character or does not respect the elders and is too materialistic or other issues.
• India
6 Sep 09
Yes virginity is very important . I want my wife to be virgin . So you can say that I'm not so called open-minded. In India virginity of a girl is very important.
@usaction (649)
• United States
22 Jun 09
NO. In this day and age, I think it's very difficult to find a woman who is one. In my freshman year of college, almost everyone (male & female) was no longer one.
@pratheep87 (1227)
• India
28 Jun 09
Yes Virgin is a big deal for me. I dont know what other guys think about this issue. But in India almost all guys need to marry a virgin girls only. Girls also have the right to think on guys virginity.
@psywar (25)
• Philippines
1 Aug 09
I guess it is not a big deal as long as you love each other.
• Malaysia
24 Jun 09
no, it not a big deal for me.
@goldeneagle (6745)
• United States
21 Jun 09
I wouldn't have cared one way or the other. I married an older woman, and she was not a virgin, but I don't see why some people or cultures make such a big deal out of a woman having to be a virgin in order to marry her. Personally, I would rather have a woman that knows what she is doing already LOL
• China
21 Jun 09
as you say,if your lover is not a virgin,you will discard her? it is very kiding? at least, i think it is not a must. and for girls, is marrying a virgin a big deal for you?
@AndrewBoi (369)
• Philippines
20 Jun 09
I don't mind if I would marry a not virgin woman as long as I am truly in love with her. But as much as possible, I want to marry a beautiful virgin woman. LOL
• Philippines
21 Jun 09
yea thats pretty awesome...i like to have a beatiful virgin woman to become mine..but i dnt mind if it was not virgin...