Pushed my cousin off the stairs.......

India
June 23, 2009 1:26am CST
I have this bad little cousin. She is about 10. She really tickles my mad anger. Yesterday i and her were alone in her house. She was littering around. Throwing rapers, bannana peel offs...etc...everywhere in the house. I told her not to do that she arrogantly answered me that its her home. she can do whatever she whats...i said okay then go on....... When her parents arrived and asked me why the house was such a mess...i told them that her little daughter did it....She lied on my face..said "no dad. i don't mess things. it was him and blaming on me".......i was speechless.... So when she was coming down the stairs i was determined that i am gonna push her. She wouldn't have died. But then my friend stopped me.....i would have really pushed her down..........
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@cripfemme (7713)
• United States
24 Jun 09
What? You're a grown up; she's 10! This is out of control anger on your part. The child lied, and don't get me wrong that's not good at all, however it's not excuse for violence towards her on your part. A better punishment would probably be not associating with her without her parents present. Perhaps she was acting badly as I way to show off to you. Not giving her what she wants (time with you alone, I suspect) might get her to act better. Of course, I could be wrong and she could just be a brat, but pushing her down stairs (even if she wouldn't have been seriously hurt) is an unacceptable behavior to exhibit for an adult such as yourself.
@Toxicon (165)
• United States
24 Jun 09
I'm not so sure some of the things posted here are by adults, what makes you certain he's not a teenager? The general way the sentences and mannerisms of speech are presented, I'm more inclined to believe he's not that much older than his cousin. If you base your asumption from the profile photo, thats Kurt Cobain (RIP) of Nirvana. You are however correct about one thing, it wouldnt have been right, no matter how little it may have hurt, pushing her down the steps wouldnt have been a good idea or solved anything. VIOLENCE IS NOT THE ANSWER !!
@cripfemme (7713)
• United States
24 Jun 09
His profile says he's 18, old enough to know better than to bully a 10-year-old-in my opinion. Her parents would have flipped out, tightly so and possibly have had him hauled off to the jail or at least told his parents. I'm sure that wouldn't have gone over well. I know it wouldn't have in my house.
@Poison_Girl (4163)
• United States
24 Jun 09
I suggest you go seek help. You shouldn't push ANYONE down the stairs and I think you know that. You're 18, so if you did it, you would have been charged as an adult. Why? Because you're old enough to know better!
@savypat (20245)
• United States
23 Jun 09
In this case you can't get physical, you have to be smarter everyone knows you're bigger. See if you can find the reason this kid is so mean and then see if you can overcome that. Think what a victory it would be if she could become your best friend. Physical solutions are for children not men. Just think how that would look, the man pushed the little girl down because she lied about him. How many would be laughing at you about that? THINK Blessings and as usual hugs
@shibham (17019)
• India
23 Jun 09
are u so angry friend? i like your cousin's behaviour bcoz she is too little and it is their age to do some funny. i was also as same as to her in my childhooh. my mother often heard about my activities from the villagers. it made her angry and scolded me anytime. but now i am too cool hehehe. and be sure that she will be cool one in her mature age.
@djemba (767)
• India
23 Jun 09
hello harshrosicky , i don't think pushing her down the stairs is the best idea for teaching her a lesson..she would stop once but it would make her even more encouraged to these sort of things to you which would make you more arrogant and this will never end...unless you show some maturity and find a solution that doesn't hurt ..
@silverglint (2001)
• Philippines
23 Jun 09
for a sec i thought you really did push her off the stairs hehe well I can relate to what you felt, my younger sister would do that to me all the time. Sometimes she would just hit me then cry, I was clueless! then my grandma (my younger sis is her favorite), would spank me for making her cry. I was like... waaah???... she was the one who hit me!!!!
• United States
23 Jun 09
You should of done it. And if they believed her over you than her parents are ignorant.