are there a perfect mom??

June 23, 2009 10:07am CST
i dont experienced having a mom, coz my mom died at an early age,,, im a mom now, and i dont think im better enough... are there a perfect mom???
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8 responses
• Indonesia
24 Jun 09
It is impossible mom is perfect in the 1st life. Later, in real heaven!
@lynnemg (4536)
• United States
30 Jun 09
There is no such thing as a perfect Mom. We learn as we go to. I can't tell you how many mistakes I feel I have made with my kids, but it is all a learning experience. All you can do is be the best you can be; as long as you love your child and do all you can to take care of that child and protect him/her, you will be fine. Life is a learning experience and Motherhood is a constant learning experience.
• United States
30 Jun 09
Oh so many points to make I can relate although my mom did not die young she was the farthest thing from a mother one could have someone below said something about all mothers try their best or something to that degree now saying this i must make it clear there are woman out there that have kids that have no business doing so that do not have one motherly bone in their being that being said these mothers would never even think about being the perfect mom so that being said if you have the self realization of whether or not you are good enough this being most likely you are not one of these people lol Luckily most moms do try their best and it is a journey one goes through that is never ending my youngest is turning 10 soon my oldest soon will be 18 and I am now finally feeling like I get it i will never be perfect not in my eyes nor reality but i can tell you in most cases if one loves their child unconditionally has their backs in times when they need help or to talk these little thing trust me in the kids eyes you are the greatest most perfect person on the earth and in the end that is all that matters how that little one sees you that is what is all about not getting it all right for none of us will but when you kid looks at you and sees you as someone great that is one of a kind feelings
@achinthya (1217)
• India
25 Jun 09
hi, nobody is perfect, but as a mother I try to be perfect to my child, what I have learned from my mother I try to pass it on to him, the good and helpful nature, to behave politely with others and honesty the main aspects..
@andresimp (818)
• India
24 Jun 09
im sorry to hear about your mom! i Dont think anyone is perfect in this world!You can do the best you can for your daughter or son. Love is the best you can give for your child. if you have no clue how to raise your child. probably you could read some online articles about parenting skills or get some books on parenting skills. This would really help. i m sure you can be the best mom to you child. Good luck!
@puqimx (359)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 09
i'm sorry to hear that.. for me my mom is a perfect mom!!!
@kalaga (547)
• United States
23 Jun 09
Hi michelle! welcome to mylot.I am sorry about your mom.I know one thing for sure.All moms are perfect in their own way.You will be a perfect mom for your kid.No matter what ....all moms know how to take care of their kids and how to make them happy.believe me...that's why lot of things are called mother's instincts.so don't even think about not being perfect mom.enjoy being a mom and be happy.wishing u all the happiness in world.happy mylotting.
@punlonnjack (1309)
• United States
23 Jun 09
hun no one is ever perfect.just try to be the best mom you can and be friends too.my mom wasnt perfect to anyone else but i feel she did i great job raising me.i wouldnt be the kind of person i am today without her influences.just be aware of the things you do and say they effect a child even at early ages.also my other advice is always try to be honest and teach your children with respect they should respect you.the people you associate with also leave big impacts on children.try to let them be their own person but monitor their behavior and keep close tabs on the kinds of friends they hang out with.hope that helps?