unseen partner

@simonelee (2716)
China
June 23, 2009 11:27am CST
Four years and still going strong in a relationship that i didn't expect. Four years of continious love, regular phone calls, love letters, exchanging gifts(with or without occations). Four years and still in love to a person whom I haven't met. A North and South relationship.
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@gicolet (1703)
• United States
23 Jun 09
Wow....4 yrs??? How did you guys last that long? I wouldn't last a year without seeing the person face to face. More patience with girls are normal but with guys i don't know. How do you know he never cheats? Guys usually prefer action than waiting. I've been there and done that so believe me...i know what i'm talking about. If i were you i would want to meet him in person. It's really way about time that you guys should think it matters a lot to see each other in person. The mutual feelings through emails and phone calls should be validated. 4 yrs is just too long now...you guys should make a move to be together already or just move on with each other's lives. It's not 1939 anymore...it's 2009, time is precious. Well good luck to both of you. Take care.
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@simonelee (2716)
• China
26 Jul 10
hahaha your reaction is funny. Well, we are now in our 6 years being apart and we are engaged. I'm so sure that my partner is loyal and never cheated on me. Honestly, im the one who was tempted, almost tempted to do such thing that might ruin our relationship. yeah, this kind of relationship is an old style but it made us strong and know each others how loyal and serious we are.
• United States
23 Jun 09
do you plan on meeting this person or are you just in love with idea of her?
@simonelee (2716)
• China
26 Jul 10
Hello, Jule. we have plans but right now we have other priorities... that is preparing for our future to be together. We have to make sure that when we're together everything was settle because we are planning to move to another country. It would not that easy for us so we carefully preparing for that. I am in love with my partner, no doubt. I am definately so sure. I would not spend so many years waiting if im not sure of my feelings.