If you're gonna say it behind my back
By 3cardmonte
@3cardmonte (5098)
June 28, 2009 3:48pm CST
You damned well better be able to say it to my face aswell. Because when I find out what you said.....
I can understand that people talk behind each others backs, it's human nature, anyone that says they never do is a liar. But some people will at least have the common decency to say it to your face too.
Are you one of those people that will say it to their face?
Or do you deny it all?
Have you ever confronted someone about what they have said?
Did they admit?
Or deny?
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2 responses
@BishounenNerd (373)
• United States
28 Jun 09
It depends on the circumstances. If it's something petty, I don't usually bother with it, but if it's something major, I usually vent about it with my friends. In fact, I usually don't say anything behind people's backs UNLESS someone asks (In which case it's usually not something really negative.), or they did something that offended me. (In which case they probably deserved it...)
@3cardmonte (5098)
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28 Jun 09
but if they askedif you said it, would you tell them?
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@BishounenNerd (373)
• United States
28 Jun 09
It depends on the person. If it's someone I'm friends with, and they ask me, I'll try to be polite about it, and hope they don't get TOO mad and understand where I'm coming from. If it's some shrimp that I can't stand and they did something REALLY bad, I'll probably get confrontational. If it's some big guy who looks like he'd beat me up, I'd rather lie about it then get beat up.
@edmltw (287)
• Singapore
28 Jun 09
I love to front-stab,
I always critise people right infront of their faces
I love to shoot them down in front of their friends
I can't help but tell them they are wrong in front of their peers
I Flirt with his girlfriend right in front of him
Catch my drift yet?
Sometimes things are meant to be hidden behind.
A balance of Yin and Yang would make life easier..
@3cardmonte (5098)
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28 Jun 09
actions and words have consequences and GROWN UPS have to face these consequences.
