What would you do?

United States
November 12, 2006 3:09pm CST
A teacher sends home a note that states "Your son is going against her authority, because he is correcting her knowledge." She says, "Johnny is getting other students to follow in tow, too." The way the teacher says it, is..."The problem is that little Johnny is challenging my 'professional' knowledge, and as such...my authority." You see, little Johnny told her she's wrong about something that she taught in class, and he's doing it in front of everyone. Therefore, the teacher sent home a notice that little Johnny is to receive a detention, due to his actions. She has spoken to Johnny about this, previously, she says. Johnny says, "She's lying to the class, because she's not giving them the correct information." To a child (age 8,) this can be perceived as lying, I'm sure. However, the problem is, Johnny is correct about the subject matter. The teacher is instructing the class, incorrectly. He has not challenged her 'in front' of the class, except to say, that "she's wrong." As a parent, how would you respond?
3 responses
@angel1983 (149)
• Australia
12 Nov 06
Stand up for your child if the teacher is wrong, but i would suggest having a talk to him about apropriate ways to let people know there wrong.
• United States
12 Nov 06
Unfortunately, not everyone can accept that they're wrong, even if they are...regardless of how you put it across.
@Signal20 (2281)
• United States
12 Nov 06
I'd stand behind my kid if the teacher was wrong. Probably schedule a meeting with the 3 of you & the principal, explain to her that she's teaching wrong info, explain to him that he needs to stop inciting the kids against the teacher-that's wrong as well. He shouldn't receive detention for voicing his opinion though, and I'd tell the principal my kid won't be in detention for that, and threaten to go to the school board.
• United States
12 Nov 06
I would suggest that she ask Johnny to come up and join her in teaching that particular subject, providing information to his classmates and teacher about where he got the information and other things he knows about the subject and then I would tell her that no she was not giving him detention, that I would speak to him at home about HOW to correct misinformation politely, perhaps speaking to the teacher after class, in private, instead.