How long before you say 'yes' to the guy courting you?
By laydee
@laydee (12798)
Philippines
July 1, 2009 10:02am CST
Call me traditional or whatever but I've always been quite stiff when it comes to relationships. I'm not saying I'm all idealistic about it, but I've always thought of each relationship as something that should last.
I've never been a player, neither have I attempted to go into flings. I'm not an oldmaid type either because I always give chance to guys who'd like to take me out or get to know me better.
But when I say 'yes', I really mean it.
I'm not the type who says 'yes' then changes her mind.
As for how long, I need a few weeks or months before I decide. By the way, during the deciding period, I'm not fond of accepting gifts, nor accepting favors.
How about you? How long before you say 'yes' to the guy courting you? Or are you those who court guys instead?
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4 responses
@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
i don't court to guys and well i don't let my yes drift that long. because if i love and like the guy that much i would directly say yes. and that means i am true to him not just kidding around. but it always ends up me being fooled around. well that's life right? but i don't stop loving and give myself chances that maybe soon i could find the right one.
jhelai
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@koalapenguin (2707)
• Philippines
20 Jul 09
Hi there laydee!Ü
Relationships are really worth treasuring.Ü I am happy on how you view it. I usually say yes after 2 years of getting-to-know each other. Yeah, pretty long huh? I guess i just want to have someone who has the patience and someone who can prove me that i am his only one. 
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@youless (113064)
• Guangzhou, China
1 Jul 09
This is a very interesting question. Actually I finally said yes to him (my husband now) after 5 years later. As when I started to know him, I was broken up with another one and I was quite sad at that time. So I just needed to have peaceful days and waited until my heart was mended. I am serious to the relationship. This is why I hardly said yes. As well as you, when I said yes, I also meant it.
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@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
18 Jul 09
it depends if i knew him very well..so its ok ill say yes!hehehe..and if he proves that he is really sincere and and true to his self. most of all i must introduce him to my family if my parents approve it. so i say go!go!lol!just like my husband we had our relationship just for 6 months then we dicided to get married...now i never regret about it!take care friend!
