who do you rather choose a person with a dream or a person without a dream .....

@HelScream (2822)
Philippines
July 2, 2009 8:48am CST
lets just say a person with a dream but does not fulfill that dream or a person who does not dream but fulfill success in life so who do you rather choose a person with a dream or a person without a dream for future? and why ?
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8 responses
@pickoy (733)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
Everyone successful has a certain dream coz without a goal or a sense of direction he couldn't have reached it. It may not be crystal clear for some coz they are torn among so many endeavors but I'm sure there's something in there that is driving them to go on. The combination of the question is quite impossible. For someone who only dreams and does not fulfill it, that's probable coz that means he can't make any solid attempts to fulfill his dream, or he doesn't want to make a step to see his dreams to take shape... If he's a quitter, no dreams will ever come true.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
in a way you are making my error sounds logical now my friend but dont you think those born to be rich and successful already had that dream as well.
@pickoy (733)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
those that are born rich, if I were in their shoes I can't say I'm successful coz that's my parents dream in complete realization. I'm just born lucky to have rich parents... but if these children we're talking about, will not learn the basics on how to handle this riches, in time all of them will diminish, or worst, be gone...
@pickoy (733)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
...and one more thing, success is an active verb that involves action. How can you say you've succeeded on something if you haven't achieved anything?
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
2 Jul 09
Hi bro. I believe that in order for one to make their dreams and aspirations come true, they have to create achievable results. In order to do that, one has to have some good aims, setting to achieve it and working hard to make sure that they are one step closer to success. I would prefer those whom try but fail rather than those whom do not want to try at all.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
2 Jul 09
That's alright..I make that kind of mistakes too at times, ha..
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
good one bro same here i would choose that kind of person as well a person who never quits even how hard the road is to success....sorry about the error though got sleepy for a while hahhaha have a good day bro
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
2 Jul 09
You have a good day too, bro...
• United States
2 Jul 09
I would choose the person without a dream. He would be living in the here and now.The dreamer is working toward that dream and we would never see each other unless I share his dream.And for all that work and have it not come true? That would hurt too much. The partner is like me, all my dreams have come true and I hope to have more but for now I am just here living day by day.
• United States
9 Jul 09
That's okay as long as I can share his dream somehow . That way I won't be shut out. But if I can't share his vision, then we should part. I would only hold him down.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
wow you have a point my friend but looks like most of the people are still on thier way to achieving there dreams
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• Brisbane, Australia
2 Jul 09
According to your question I think you trying to say one person is busy in just dreaming and not taking his first step even to make it success. Other person you talking about is hardworking and doing his tasks and sure about his success. I believe very first step/ thought to decide your goal is your dream which you want to fulfill anyway. If you do not have any dream and you not crazy about it then I guess you not that enthusiastic person or living life as it comes to you.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
yes you got it right my friend wow you understood my errors perfectly sorry about that though hmmmm wanted to know from the individuals here which would they choose as a partner for me I do have a dream and each day I am making something to achive that dream one step at a time closer to my dreams
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
2 Jul 09
I guess from the way u put it i would have to choose the person w/out a dream. So many people are dreamers & waste their time dreaming when they should be up doing something.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
sorry about that error over there my lady got too to think about that logically....I am glad you had understood me perfectly even with that error lol how was your son today was the result right?
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
2 Jul 09
NO problem. My son gores this afternoon for the last test. Thanks for asking about him.
@saw2207 (1359)
• United States
2 Jul 09
helS... hmm what are we choosing this person for? really i believe things like this are to be looked at from within . . i hate to judge people by their goals and aspirations and think it is best that we just concentrate on ourselves when it comes to this kinda stuff . .. you sure you werent dreaming when you typed this one
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
hahahhaha I was dreaming that I will win our bet thats why I got the error you know if one chooses a partner in life one must look at everything that that person poses but for me this things really dont matter what matter most for me is love hey your 7 post ahead of me hahhaha you too fast and to serious reaching that 1000 ha lol
@Rakhi6c (299)
• India
2 Jul 09
I feel technically every one has a dream .But they dont think or feel or tell about their dreams .Its unbeleivable if a person tells i dint have any dreams in life but yet am successful.
@HelScream (2822)
• Philippines
2 Jul 09
hahaha you are right about that my friend got too thats why made that error but thinking about it some people are born rich already and inherit it from there family so I think they are already successful financially
@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
9 Jul 09
I guess the way you put it, having no dream and getting somewhere in life sounds like the best road to take. Only dreaming will bring disappointment in the end. Better to be realistic. Dreaming is fun, and hope is important. But always keep both feet on the ground. Take cara.