REASONS 4 BEING single.....
By sksrin
@sksrin (111)
India
July 3, 2009 7:05am CST
4 me....i deeply loved sm1...she left me alone...(y..sorry)....
nw i tried to get it relation with sm1 just to frget it..bt i cannt..i dont no y..
i dont want to prove my loyality towrds her..bt still..i cannt..it really stuck smwhere inside..whn i tries to talk to smn1 tht way...seeking help n responses both
2 responses
@megha_gupta (132)
• India
3 Jul 09
Oh! that's sad. But I am going through the same problem. I really loved someone and I got ditched. I have tried very hard to get over him and I guess I have succeed to a certain extent. Now it is like I will think 100 times before I get into another relationship.
All I can suggest for you is try distracting yourself with something, some hobby of yours or anything. And think before you get into a relationship, if you can't keep the person happy then don't get into because you got hurt is bad but that does not mean you hurt somebody else. All the best with your life. Take Care.
@sksrin (111)
• India
3 Jul 09
Thanks 4 helping me out...
yaa yaar thts the thing...
but nothing is there wich can distract frm her...
Actually yaar wen u really love sm1(I KN U WILL UNDERSTAND) u make him or her a part of ur life... u dont realise it bt u become dependent on them.n getting over it...is really....u knw..
i m happy 4 u..and ill try to follow ur advice...yaa tht toh sure ill nt play with any other emotions....as the pain is unbearable...
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@megha_gupta (132)
• India
4 Jul 09
I am very glad to help.:) I can very well understand how you become dependent on that person for everything (your feelings, your life everything) I did the same and now here I am all broken and shattered. But I could not end my life. Why should I?? For someone who didn't care about me and left me. The same goes for you buddy. Distracting yourself can be easy you just have to look for your favourite hobby and you'll achieve your goal or I have an even better idea read some famous love stories LOL (i read Twilight series) from these books you get very high ideas of how your partner should be like.
It's very obvious you'll compare the girl in the book with your ex and you'll see there are much better girls in the world. They may not be exactly like the girl in book u choose to read but somewhat close. Then you tend to wait for that new girl of your dreams which helps you forget your ex.
I hope you are getting what I am saying. I hope this helps you. :) Take care!
