Have son or daughter better ?

@busky5 (3165)
Thailand
July 3, 2009 7:55am CST
I have a son. My spouse is Chinese he likes to have a son more than daughter, but i don't know why that. For me,I love girl more than boy, because the girl is same me, i want her can be friend and shopping with me, and another reason,i think almost boys are disobey, hard to control, and naughty.
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5 responses
• India
3 Jul 09
Whenever I get married (that is if I do) I would like a daughter first. I love the dresses made for girls. LOL! And moreover being a girl myself I understand what a girl goes through so I can be her best friend. I don't mind having a boy though. ™ girl and 1 boy and family complete.
@busky5 (3165)
• Thailand
3 Jul 09
You are right, in positive son can help me like a man when he grow.Am i right?
• India
4 Jul 09
Yes ofcourse! I don't descriminate between a girl or a boy. It's just that I'd want a girl first and then a boy. I am being selfish here because when the girl grows up she can help me by looking after the boy.:)
• Philippines
4 Jul 09
same becase the son boy or girl is blessing from god
@busky5 (3165)
• Thailand
4 Jul 09
You are great for kid.
@kmaram (2534)
• Philippines
3 Jul 09
Well for me i dont really care whether our first child is boy or girl but my hubby wanted to have a baby boy and he even have a name if its a boy. When i had my ultrasound we found out that it was a girl, my hubby was a bit sad that time but after a while he was happy and excited to see our first child. I am happy that he was happy with our child and he gives everything if he can. So for me whether its a son or daughter it really doesnt matter what matter is how you treat your child or how you makes them grow as a better person, hope i can make sense here . Keeo on mylotting and keep on posting good discussion
@busky5 (3165)
• Thailand
3 Jul 09
Now, i will proud and improve to treat him best.
@meandmy3 (2228)
• United States
3 Jul 09
Boys can be so sweet and kind you would be surprised at how special it is to have a baby boy in your life. I like you thought that I would do better with a daughter, I however have been pleasantly surprised at how close I am with my boys. Do not get me wrong I love my baby girl. I am just saying that you should keep your options open and be open to having a son as well.
@busky5 (3165)
• Thailand
3 Jul 09
I only think that impossible,but i will open mind. Thank you.
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
3 Jul 09
Kids a gem, dont differentiate them . I guess anything is better . You can bundle of joy with kids . SO enjoy and accept the gift of god.
@busky5 (3165)
• Thailand
3 Jul 09
You maynot be the kids. You can look same.But i can see different, However i love my kid only thinking i would have a daughter.