How to act in front of your crush?
@cecillecarmela (3818)
Philippines
July 3, 2009 8:03am CST
Hi =D I have a "crush" these days he's my classmate this semester.. I've told it to someone and I think my crush already knows I have a crush on him but I'm not really sure about it.. So what do you do when you're in front of your crush? Do you tend to shy away from him, or do you try hard to be as natural as you are when he's not around?? Need an opinion regarding this one.. Thanks =D
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@Ingkingderders (3831)
• Philippines
4 Jul 09
Hi! well.. I tend to blush a lot, and I am always loss for words when Im nervous, so I try not to talk to my crush, and avoid him as much as possible. LOL. Crush for me is just that, a silly crush, I don't ever want anything other than that. If i became friends with my crush, I'm afraid the "crush" would fade so I try to stay away from him as far as possible. LOL. It's just more fun that way. The "kilig" factor never goes away. LOL.
@srganesh (6339)
• India
4 Jul 09
Start talking with him and associate yourself with him more.That will remove your early shyness in the relationship.Even if he is not aware of your crush towards him,he will soon learn it through your eyes.But don't act silly or blabber anything in his presence to attract him.That will make you a joker.Try to remain cool and don't have expectations.Everything will be alright.Cheers!
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@PeacefulWmn9 (10420)
• United States
3 Jul 09
Hi Cecille. While it is sometimes hard to act "normal" around someone on whom we have a crush, that is truly the best thing to do. Smile, be happy, but by all means, be your truest self.
Karen @baldypriest (337)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I used to be so shy around my middle and high school crushes. Then, when I got to college, I realized I just had to be myself around people. If nothing came of it, nothing came of it, and I accepted their friendship. You just have to take the risk of showing that person your true, inner self and see how things go.
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@mkrishna22 (465)
• India
3 Jul 09
Firstup, as karen says, it is quite a nice feeling, so enjoy it.
secondly, try to be as natural as possible and do not especially start behaving in a manner different from your earlier self. If you have generally been on talking terms with him,continue to do so. when i was inmy college, i had a good friend on whom i slowly developed a crush. my behavior changed towards her, i talked less and less with her and eventually, i was not even friends with her. so ber your natural self and let him know about it at an opportune time.
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@megha_gupta (132)
• India
3 Jul 09
Like everyone said BE NORMAL. That's the trick. LOL! If you talk to him give smart answers abd be confident. By smart answers I don't mean you show attitude or just flaunt about yourself. But don't underestimate yourself infront of him (i know most of the girls do this). And DON't be too flirty or don't just keep jumping or sticking to him, it will make him grow sick of you. Just play it smart. Show your affection but don't let it go overboard. :) Take care. Will like to know how it is going with you crush. :)
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