Do you enjoy keeping your home clean or do you not like "housework?"

United States
July 3, 2009 8:15am CST
I love having a clean home, but there are some facets that even while I do them, I do not enjoy them. Keeping clutter under control, for instance, seems to be ongoing and I hate always messing with it. I dust, but I'm not fond of that chore either. On the other hand, I enjoy washing the dishes, cooking, and doing laundry. Do you enjoy housework? Or don't you like doing it. Karen
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
3 Jul 09
Karen Hi! My better half is the in charge of our home, therefore, she looks after cleaning etc. besides a part time maid. I do not enjoy much cleaning, however, when it is required, I do not hesitate to share my responsibility.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Jul 09
Yes Karen, sharing definitely unburdens the other partner and one and one makes eleven and we should not feel hesitant in helping our partners.
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• United States
5 Jul 09
Amen to that : ) A shared burden is always lightened, a shared joy heightened!
• United States
4 Jul 09
Hello Deepak. I do think roles are a bit more blended at times. For instance, I used to love doing a lot of the yard work and helping build things. But that is good when we help one another as needed. :) Karen
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
3 Jul 09
hi karen, definetly you have to clean your home,cooking washing dishes etc etc, because you are house wife you have to do the all things in your home
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@Riptide (2758)
• United States
3 Jul 09
Excuse me???? Just because she is a woman it is her duty to clean the house?? You have got to be kidding me! Are you from the middle ages or something? Women are not born with brooms and dustmops in their hand!
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
4 Jul 09
hi friends, when gents are going to office, before going office and after comming office he may help you in the house,then there is relax in your work when the gents are helping you,ladies not working outside how they spent their time,it is better to do house works maintaing house itself shows the best mother,wife etc etc
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Hi Yugasini, I think perhaps different cultures have different ideas about who does housework. When both a husband and wife work outside the home, they often share the chores or child care. Or when you are like me and no longer married, if you like a clean house, you do even those chores you might not like. Thank you for sharing your own opinion. :) Karen
• United States
8 Aug 09
Both-LOL. I absoultely love a clean house and I feel so much better as a person and a mother when the house is tidy adn clean. However, I have 3 children, and my youngest one is 2, so I do have days where I just sit in the ruckus of the messes anddon't do anything. I get into spurts where I am go go go with housecleaning, but I am not one to clean all day every day. I have massive amounts of straightening to do today as well as piles of laundry. I will get to it, sooner or later. ; )
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• United States
8 Aug 09
I will blame Mylot for keeping my preoccupied from doing the things that I need to be doing today. Nearly 4 in the afternoon here, and I have just now started my laundry 45 minutes ago. Hey, it's Saturday, and it's hot (and I have to walk my laundry to the laundryroom on the otherside of my apartment complex.)
• United States
8 Aug 09
Hello Princess. Cleaning everything every day would indeed be exhausting. With children, especially, the work always returns any way. But yes, there is a great sense of satisfaction to keeping a home basically tidy and clean, even though it must soon be repeated lol. Thank you for sharing your input Karen
@thea09 (18305)
• Greece
5 Jul 09
Hi, I loathe cleaning the house with a vengeance, it all seems so pointless and a never ending task though I do prefer to have the end result of a nice clean house. I love to cook but hate to clean up afterwards. Laundry does not bother me at all but ironing is a chore. It is also very difficult to motivate myself to clean when the weather is so hot, plus it's school hols so there is more clutter around. I suppose it needs a good blitz now so I shall attack it in the morning before it gets hot but i will take no delight at all in doing it. If I ever get rich I would love to have a cleaner.
• United States
5 Jul 09
Hi Thea...I love some of the chores, but not all. They do keep coming back! But as you said, the end result each time is worth the effort. And clutter, I think that is the worst for almost everybody! It's hard to stay ahead of it. Perhaps someday you'll have that help :D Karen
@marites31 (267)
• Philippines
5 Jul 09
i don't like houseworks, but there is no choice because as the saying goes, your house is your reflection. and i want to keep cleanliness and orderliness in my home not only for myself but for the family im living with. even if i also live alone i practice the same thing. to be clean because it will affect one's health also. so keep yourself active all the time if you feel bored by doing the house hold chores.
• United States
5 Jul 09
Hi Marites...once I get started, I actually enjoy most of the cleaning. I'm with you, it is healthier, more pleasant, and actually good exercise. And yes, being busy chases boredom away! Karen
@apgh09 (514)
• United States
6 Jul 09
hi peacefulwmn9 i love having a clean home it helps me to think better what i hate is after i wash the dishes and i get hungry again and have to dirty a dish again !!!!! i have been in homes that were so unclean it made me sick i could not live like that !
• United States
6 Jul 09
Hi Apgh. LOL, yes, I do that...get all the dishes clean and I'm then hungry and dirty another one. I've been in atrocious homes, too, and you're right. I rather clean every single day than to live in such a home! Karen
• India
4 Jul 09
Well to be really truthful, i do not like to do housework. But in the same breath i would like to say that i like my home to be kept clean.
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Hi Rp...I think many of us feel this same way. We might not like doing it all, but we do like a clean home. :) Karen
@zhuhuifen46 (3483)
• China
4 Jul 09
I need a clean home, and I prefer to do the cleaning by myself instead of an hourly helper, not because I like housework, but because I have to force myself to do some physical labor. When the room is in good order, it is easy to maintain. The feeling of having a pleasing residence is rewarding as well. As a lady, I also feel it the responsibility to contribute to the family.
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Hello Zh...I do not have enough extra to hire help, but I like it to look nice, so I do it. And it is good exercise. I think it is helpful when ones children are still home if everyone pitches in and does their part! Thank you for your input :) Karen
@candy2306 (576)
• India
4 Jul 09
For me, I love clean house, however I don't like all the houseworks. Like yourself, I love to do the dishes, cooking, mopping the floor and washing the bathroom. The other work like sweeping, I hate that and I have no choice but to do it! Wish I could get a domestic servant soon..
• United States
4 Jul 09
Hi Candy. It would be nice to be able to afford help sometimes. I guess the part I like least is dusting and vacuuming, but they need to be done, so I do them. The other things, I actually enjoy :D Thank you for your response. Karen
• China
4 Jul 09
i think maybe most people enjoy the rooms kept clean, but dont like to do housework. to me, certainly enjoy my room kept clean too,but also do the housework,cause i'm alone,if i dont do,nobody will help me,lol in fact,when u have the habit of doing it,even if u dont do it sometimes,u'll feel upset cause left sth undone. but when i was at home in the past.i just like some housework.such as i liking sweeping every day, cooking meals,washing clothes,etc.but dont like washing the dishes,lol
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Hi Yolanda. True, when you are alone, if you don't do it nobody will. And it never seems to do itself lol. I don't mind doing housework, but for a few things. I do them anyway because it looks much nicer. Karen
• United States
4 Jul 09
i try to keep things tidy. i don't like clutter but i live with a pack rat!! i have a problem starting the dusting, but once i start i can't stop. i don't mind doing the laundry, but folding is another story!!
• United States
4 Jul 09
Hi Dab...I used to live with a pack rat...so frustrating! Clutter is one of the hardest things to keep up with. Like you, I find getting started is the key. Once I am, I like to go until it is all done :D Karen
• Bulgaria
4 Jul 09
I dont like the mess and filth.....and I care to be cleanly
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Hi T3...yes, even if one doesn't like the work, it has to be done or the house looks bad and smells funny lol. That, and I would be embarrassed if someone dropped in to visit and my house was a mess :D Karen
• Philippines
4 Jul 09
I love also having a clean room because it is relaxing when you lie on your bed and looking around..so lets keep our home clean it's better example of your children and other members of the family.
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Hello Mcgeld...very true, so much easier to relax when things look nice. And yes, when we clean up after ourselves it sets a good example for all of those around us. And if company drops in, we don't have to be embarrassed! I appreciate your input :) Karen
• India
4 Jul 09
I don't like to do this course of work. But I will do it. In my country, House Wives will do this if they are not job holders. My wife will do this type of works and I will help her as a assistant.
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Hello Pattiri. Yes, some women like to stay home and care for their children and the home. It is nice if a husband and wife work at this together. It takes a lot to keep everything in order. Thank you for sharing your viewpoint. Karen
@savypat (20216)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I hate it, but I hate a dirty house more so I do the dirty deeds. We live in the house of hay and hair here, between the hay that comes in after feeding the animals and the hair from the animals that live here , including the human ones we can clean everyday and still need to do more.
• United States
4 Jul 09
Ah yes, Pat, with people and animals both comes the hair issue. I think most of feel that housework is one of those things that is just never done. And we are right about that lol. Karen
@julius11 (10)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I love cleaning everything except the bathroom. Ever since I was a teenager doing chores I get grossed out cleaning the toilets even when it looks clean. I alway bargain with my husband and son for them to do it. I even bargained cleaning the whole house and laundry bymyself so my husband can clean the bathroom. I try to by those automatic shower cleaner that sprays the tub after you take a shower and add a dropin toilet cleaner to keep it clean. And the most I will do is take a disinfectant wipe and wipe the toilet and toilet bowl handle. But the rest, someone else is doing it. My husband jokes that I need counseling for that. I think he is right.
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Hi Julius. LOL, I doubt you need thearpy :D Perhaps you said it all...you just plain don't like cleaning the bathroom. If you do everything else, then no reason why son and hubby would mind doing the rest :D Karen
@meandmy3 (2227)
• United States
3 Jul 09
I do not enjoy cleaning house but I do keep it clean. I can not stand to have a dirty messy house. I like it to stay clean and organized.
• United States
3 Jul 09
Hello Meandmy. I think many of us are like this. While we may not enjoy the actual tasks involved, we DO enjoy the end results. I also love a clean and well organized environment. Thank you for responding. Karen
• China
4 Jul 09
my house would get mess if i didn't tidy up.i can't bear to see house in a terrible mess,but my hubby still feel ok to see the mess,so i have to clear up although i wouldn't like to do sometimes.but the most of the time i like doing housework,i would feel enjoyment when we maintain the cleanliness of the house.after all this environment we have to face every day.
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Hello Ching. Like you, I figure this is where I live, and I do not want to live in a mess. Most housework I enjoy, but I do those things I do not especially like to do so that I don't have to try to relax in a mess. Thank you for you input :) Karen
• Philippines
4 Jul 09
I really like cleaning the house, but sometimes I get really stressed by it. Cause my 2 siblings who lives with me are really lazy so they don't clean at all... I specially like doing vacuum, washing the dishes and changing the sheets of our bed.. What I hate most in all household chores is cleaning the bathroom.. but I can't stand dirty bathroom, so I clean them anyway, with a heavy heart. LOL.
• United States
4 Jul 09
Hello Ingking. When people share a house, it is a lot of work for just one person to handle without the help of the others. I think most of us do not especially like cleaning the bathroom! I am with you there, and nope, I can't stand a dirty one either. Thank you for your input. Karen
• United States
3 Jul 09
Oh I hate housework and would rather pay someone else to do it. I ask some else to do it for me. I pay the kid down the street. She come in every two weeks and does my room for me and cleans. Then I pay here once one the third.
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• United States
4 Jul 09
Hello Cookie. That is a great alternative. I had to have help for a while years ago during an extended illness. I was glad to have it, since I do not enjoy and messy home. Karen