how many days u can stay without your partner?
By shibham
@shibham (16977)
India
13 responses
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 09
The young hearts are always tormented by separation. Absence is a torture to their budding love and wish to be around each other every minute of the day. I went through that anxieties before but now the heart becomes neutral and feel uneasy when my other half is always around the house. Wish he is not around more often so I have my own space.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
6 Jul 09
Nope,
This , what you have termed as budding loves are actually budding lust. If two hearts are in true unison there is no question of non availability of physical proximity. Love binds them any way. What is being discussed here is the case of infatuation and the strong current of the oppositeness in the gender. Disagree?

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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
5 Nov 09
hello shibham!
when my husband & i are just bf/gf, we survive our long distance relationship for a year! hehe that's because he was assigned to another province...and those days are really sad coz i really missed him a lot and there's so many worries that time & many problems that arises...but good that we survived it and ends in marrying each other...
now that we are married, the longest that i've been away from him is i guess that's 10 days! haha. yes, i go to my parents home, in my hometown to attend some important matters/occasion and have a vacation at the same time... he was not able to go with me coz he got lots of work and duties in his work...
that 10 days...hmmm sad coz i miss him but i still manage to enjoy it coz my parents are there and i was able to catch up with my friends from college & high school!
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
6 Nov 09
well, we've been married for 5 years now! hehe and in those 5 years, we are always together for 4 years already...hehe coz the first year of our marriage, we just meet each other every weekend or sometimes 4x a week! haha coz im living in a boarding house then...
its sad to be away from our beloved coz, he are used to seeing them everyday, serving them, sleeping & waking up with them...see, they are the first & last face that we are seeing in our everyday life...
you will understand it more when you get married or when you are already in a relationship...

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@shibham (16977)
• India
10 Nov 09
hi ckyera, at last u have changed your avatar but dont mind it is not so cute and lovely as it was before. you had a special identity through thah avatar.
anyway yes, i am waiting to get that experience but dont forget that i need a virgin as i said u days ago. thanks.
@shibham (16977)
• India
5 Nov 09
good story to listen. so how many days ago you got married? i think it is hard to stay away from our beloved in a b/f g/f relationship. but after marrige it is quiet easy to stay away from. yes, but not for a long time.
hahaha.... i have no experience on this bcoz i dont know what sensation creats in real love. why it is too hard to stay away from beloved. i have no practical knowledge. i just hear it from all those who are lovers. hahaha//////
have a nice day again. take care.

@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
6 Jul 09
been living away for 4 years now...im still living and surviving =p
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
3 Nov 09
thanks for the mark dear...and yeah,i need to be brave...courage is the only weapon to survive from all sorrow

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@TickleMeBreathless (590)
• United States
16 Nov 09
I've been away from my boyfriend for as long as ten months before. It's not like you'll die. It sucks a lot at first, but you get used to it.
@TickleMeBreathless (590)
• United States
16 Nov 09
Haha, well you're right, it is painful, but you get used to it. In the end it paid off for me anyway. It brought my boyfriend and I closer, and our relationship is stronger because of it.
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@jhoanne1215 (290)
• Philippines
5 Jul 09
i think about a week,hehehe after that,me or he will find a way just to see each other..hehehe
@cookiecrumbles (629)
• United States
5 Jul 09
When ever I was in a relationship i hated any amount of time away from my partner. I mean any time over like an hour I would start to miss him. If you don't miss your partner it has alot to do I think with the depth of your feeling of love. That's my thought.
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@acie_21 (5633)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
i have a husband, i can take only one day but my heart is not ok..i cant usually take or imagine that my partner will just leave me at home while he sleeps in another place like out of town business.maybe its ok that he goes to work then goes home at night. if he dont sleep at the house i sometimes feel lonely and sad.its really lonely sleeping alone.
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@rg0205 (2636)
• Hong Kong
17 Nov 09
We've been away from eachother months at a time and we survived it. It can be hard to miss a person but well, sometimes circumstance calls for it. There is no choice. We can't always be around the person we love 24/7, unfortunately. In those cases, we make the best out of the situation.
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@bernjane (143)
• Philippines
16 Nov 09
Guys, just a piece of advice don't devote yourself too much with you partner unless you are already married. When you love most, make sure you remained a little piece for yourself that times of goodbyes you have nothing to cried much. To be exact, i am in a relationship for almost 5 years and it's like we can't live with each other but certainly goodbye comes knocking on us. We remained friends till now but still much hurting us because for a fact that we have already dream for our future and save for it. We even manage to have partnership in business but now it's like time keep telling us we have to move on since we know ourselves we would better remain friends rather than lovers.










