hello, mylot ladies, if you ahve to sacrifice your life

My spouse and kids are like my two eyes.so i would like to sacrifice for both.I cannot let one helpless.

Hello again, vijayanths. :) My husband and I are child-free, meaning we have chosen never to have kids, so I'd have to choose my husband. My husband has changed a lot to benefit us, just as I have changed a lot to benefit our relationship. My husband is the only person on this earth I'd do anything for. I read your comment to someone else where you said your husband is going to be there through thick and thin. That's true for people who truly believe marriage means something when they get into it. Kids will be raised and leave, and there is no telling whether or not they'll stick around and be there for you forever. After all, most people in nursing homes have kids but the kids could care less. But there is still romantic love in those same nursing homes. :) I would sacrifice my life for my husband, but since that's most likely not going to happen, I stick by the fact that I'd sacrifice hobbies and other such things for him if it were a detriment to our relationship. I have before and I would do it again.

Common sense says that if a couple have more than one child and if one is choose between one kid and a spouse, then one should try and save the spouse. The spouse could look after the other kids. If its all the kids and the spouse then common sense (as well most spouses would want) that the kids be saved so that both the spouses could live on through their children.

I would sacrifice my life for them both. Both are also equally precious to me. I would only feel that my husband must be there for my son and my son must be there for my husband and so if I sacrifice my life it really does not matter.

you sometimes ask strange questions vijayanths.....duties towards both are different and we are committed both to children and hubby....so i can do it for both, whoever is in need...it will be a very rare case that both will need my life...actually they need me to live....

Hello, vijayanths, I am not eligible to respond to this discussion-I have no spouse and no kids. I am enjoying my last part of my bachelor life. If I have to choose between mom and dad I might choose my mom.

i would choose my kids for whatever reason,my kids are my life and everything next to God.