describe your true love???

United States
July 6, 2009 9:21pm CST
my true love. i would describe them as being someone i could talk to about the stupidest the craziest the most serious stuff and some how they will never lose there attraction towards me. i just want someone i can talk to and who can make me laugh. who wants to be married for the rest of our lives. and sadly i have to find them some what attractive. which shouldn't be hard cause i have very low standards. they have to be fit and work out with me. i like bonding in those ways. go a head and describe your true love! or your soul mate u have now....have u even found ur true love yet?
13 responses
• United States
7 Jul 09
my true love was my ex.... shouldve never broke up
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@drdivu (1011)
• India
7 Jul 09
hey..dont feel that way..EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR GOOD..!! may be u still have to find ur true love, one esp made by god for u... good luck..
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@Celanith (2334)
• United States
7 Jul 09
He is 6'0, he is 60, the love of my life, We have been married for 39 plus years, next April we celebrate 40 years together. He is gentle, sweet, kind, giving, loyal. A romantic sexy lover. Bald is beautiful he has lost his hair on top but has an incredable smile and bright blue eyes. He is compassionate and adore's me. If I ask him if I am in the way of something he is doing he always replies' "No dear, your never in my way, I love you and would miss you if you were gone from my life" He brings me flowers and little things at unexpected times for no reason other than he loves me. He and I talk a lot and plan things and discuss our life we have had, and the good memories and the sad ones too. We talk about our future and we pray together and hope we have 40 or more years ahead of us together yet. He is not rich, He has had four surgeries and may need a heart surgery in a few weeks. He rubs my feet and back and when I am super tired he will cook dinner or wash the dishes. He is not hard on the eyes but not super studly either. He fixes things, and build me a special storage unit for my things I use like holiday decor and craft things, seasonal things like coolers and camp gear and like sleds and things. He is always doing things for me. I love roses and don't have a green thumb but he does and he loves to garden and is making a rose garden for us both to enjoy. He encourages me in my weight loss, I gained due to hypothyroidism and now losing with proper diet and exercise and he works with me in my swim aerobic class and other things. He is wonderful and sweet, generous. I have a man worth more than all the gold, silver, rubies and diamonds in the world. He does not own me and I don't own him. We give one another freedom to be ouurselves and to be indiviuals. Our love is a love for a life time by choice. I cannot imagine my life with any other man.
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@janebeth (2033)
• Philippines
7 Jul 09
i started having a boyfriend when i'm in 1st year college, i was 16 then. my parents are very strict when you talk about intimate relationships. but i broke it, it can't stop me. the first time i saw this guy i told myself that he is my soulmate, y?? for the reason that he is my answered prayers, not exact he is but a sort of him. i'am too young to think it like that before but now i thank it, until now we are with each other for almost 5 years. and i always say to myself that iam hoping that he will be my husband sooner or later.. he cares for me a lot, he understands me too my deepest attitude, we are both happy!! so if u want something just ask it, pray for it and iam very sure HE will give it to you..
• India
7 Jul 09
Ur last line is a motivator for me. I was ask,pray and He will give me my girl
@drdivu (1011)
• India
7 Jul 09
ur last line seems great..but i have been asking god, led in bad one..till now from more than 10years, my pray has not been answered..wat to say...
@janebeth (2033)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
hi drdivu, pls don't surrender, maybe GOD has a big plan on your life.. just keep on praying and make things possible, don't loose hope dear.. i will also pray for you.. janebeth.
• China
8 Jul 09
En,good topic. It makes me smile even when I talk about my love. The three key words I would describe my love are: believe, proud, and promising. these three words make me happy. I believe in our true love and we both believe each other very mych. Both of us are very proud of each other and we know we have a promising future.
• China
8 Jul 09
i have a good girlfriend ,we all graduated from college , we were dating the second year in college,i am so muchin love withher now , but feel sorry to her ... when i come to college ,we met each other ,and have a lot talk ,we have the same opinions about many things ,we have dreams ,we talk about how to become succesful ,we share the high school tough life ,you know , i am in china (the way to college is one stupid college entrance exam ).we are happy together , i think she is my soulmate ,and i like her ,but maybe not so strong .about us , i dont know what happens ,coz we talked about dreams ,about dating things is after college thing ... so when i see a nother girl ,i thought she like me ,then we dated,fall in relationship,soon i find we talks little ,we have nothing in commen,two month later we broke up ... i know i still love the girl we have a lot in commen ,i start persued her in the third year , finally we were together ,we are still have great time now ,she knows i have dated someone ,but she forgive me ,she seldom ask about it , i mean ,she is amazing ,the less she blame me ,the more sorry i feel .what a good girl i am having ...
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
For me mytrue love is someone who can depend on, someone who understand your feelings,behavior,someone you can talk anything under the sun.And specially someone who knows you a lot.
• United States
7 Jul 09
My true love is my husband. We've been married five months but together for almost five. He is literally everything I wanted, and I do mean that. :) Things that describe my husband: *All of his relationship firsts were with me, and mine with him. *Open-minded *Loyal to the point of clinginess *Animal-lover *The ability to be silly MOST of the time *He's able to not only admit he loves me in front of others, but he calls me pet names in front of others as well, even using our "cutesy" voice most of the tim. *He sees only me and needs nothing from anyone else and expects the same from me *He has the same general morals that I do, the most important being he went vegan for me in our first month together, because I found it immoral to eat animal products *He doesn't want to be a father, and this is only on the list because of its importance in a relationship. I never wanted kids, and for my "future" husband to actually marry me, it was a no budge situation. *He not only talks, but LISTENS. *He is polite and friendly to strangers. For some reason, this has always been a must for the person I was going to spend my life with. If you go shopping with someone and they are rude to the cashier, no thank you. *He is not be prejudiced, racist, sexist, or over-the-top judgemental. *He is able to stay at home for an entire day with me and still want to spend more time with me. I love that. :) I had more but I'll take up too much room if I go on. I love how many other people have described their husbands here as well. It certainly is refreshing to see. :)
@drdivu (1011)
• India
7 Jul 09
well, i have exactly same feeling as u have describe...words are not enough, but these are not expectations from the true love...unfortunately, i have not found my true love yet..dont know if i wil ever find him in future or not too...
@xenna1986 (228)
• Philippines
7 Jul 09
he is just someone I cannot remove from my system. Even if the so-called " romantic hormones" all seem to expire, still, the flame of love that I have for him remains to exist. He is someone that I truly miss, until today, even if he has been long gone.
@preethaanju (3000)
• India
7 Jul 09
Silence. True lovers speak less and feel more inside.
@dex1007 (556)
• Malaysia
7 Jul 09
nice question. hmmmm... I guess I'd like someone i could talk to too. Someone who adores me, likes everything i do and say. he must be good looking coz after true love i don't want to be attracted to anyone ever again. so he needs to be the full package. hot. sweet. smart. kind. i guess a sense of humor wouldn't hurt too. Nothing fancy like 'knows how to play the piano' and 'recites poems' lol. but someone i can seriously and want to hang out with. all day every day. some one who makes my heart skip a beat with his words, smile and eyes that speak to my heart. okk... i'm getting mushy. excuse me while i go sigh dreamily. lol.
• United States
7 Jul 09
I found my soul mate when I was 13 years old, though I didn't know he was my soul mate until years later. We are both really goofy and can be ourselves all the time. He's very patient, easy on the eyes, and supports me in whatever I do. I can talk to him about anything, and he can do the same. We have 2 wonderful kids that have brought us even closer together. He's really a great father. I'm so lucky!
• United States
7 Jul 09
Someone who will never lose my captivation. Someone who will always be there for me in any kind of situation. Who can make me smile when I need to be cheered up, and someone who can cry with me in my time of need. Someone who will always try to make me happy and never intentionally hurt me.