Forgive

India
July 7, 2009 1:02am CST
Will you ever forgive your ex if he\she left you for another person and now wants to return back to you?
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9 responses
@hsofyan (3447)
• Jakarta, Indonesia
7 Jul 09
He left you, that is his right. He left you, because the judge wrongly. He returned to you, because he does not like there. He returned to you, because you better. You do not want to accept and acknowledge this fact?
• India
7 Jul 09
I think a relationship is about 2 individuals and it is not a game that a person gets another chance to rectify his\her mistake.Now how can he\she even think that they will be forgiven for what they have done.I don't have such a big heart to forgive.
@nigarish (70)
• India
9 Jul 09
"i have forgiven her first time and cried alotsecond time i have also forgiven her because i thought i am the reason some how....but again she left me ....this time i tried to do so....but i was badly failed......and i infact try my level best to be atleast like frens but it didn't worked.....now she is the only person whom i hate alot and can harm her in the most prefferd ways"moral of the story--try 2 solve the problem twice ....if it happens again than she is part time girlfrens...just it and ditch it as soon as possible......(this is not applicable for boys)....in case of boys "NO FORGIVEN IS NEEDED"
@iamsolucky (1242)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
I can forgive, but that wont be easily because it hurts a lot. But i wont accept his offer when he wants to go back to me. I will just think of it as a past experience and a lesson. He broke my heart because he see somebody, and then he wants me back again. Then it means he will hurt another person, so the best thing to do is never involve again i think. He might look at somebody next time. Do that deed again and again and im so afraid to trust. Thats the problem with me, its hard to give my 100% trust again when i am betrayed once. And im sure there are a lot of people same like me. Trust is so hard to earned and give away just like that. happy mylotting and smile always
@djemba (767)
• India
8 Jul 09
NO i wouldn't...when she had me ,i had obviously suffered a bad time after and its obviously very hard to forgive someone and let them back into your life after she has broken your heart once..You can't give them a second chance..Its risking your happiness for your conscience that wants you to forgive her..
@eLsMarie (4349)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
i can forgive that person but i would prefer having him as a friend... uhmmm... he left me to be with somebody else and if i'll give him another chance then, surely, he'll that same mistake again... so it's better for us to be friends.
@n30wing (4768)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
Hi meetvivek, Yes I could forgive her, but it's always time could say when can I forget what had happened. It's only time could heal the wounds. But anyway I wont go back anymore to that person once who broke my heart. It's enough I have loved her, given her the attention, but there is also a time when you move on and found someone else. But that pain help me a lot to be a stronger person.Have a nice day!
• United States
8 Jul 09
Well, it's happened to me so I can relate to this question. It took me awhile to forgive enough, to be able to start all over again. The idea of my mate, being with another woman, drove me crazy for awhile. But after I heard the remorse in his voice, I finally decided that everyone makes mistakes and it would be heartless of me, not to forgive...at least, the first time. So I took him back and we started over. Unfortunately, it didn't work the second time, either. But My conscience is clear, knowing that I did try.
• United States
7 Jul 09
that sounds like a hard question to answer. if my ex came back i would be like and where have you been when i needed you. then we would have to have a long talk. but if he left me before how do i really know he's dedicated to me now. maybe he realized his mistakes and thats cool but i hate going back to the past. i want to leave things the way they are because i tried to have some of my past come back into my life and things changed. people change. so i would probably have a long talk with him. say lets just hang out and lets see where things will go. if the attraction still there we will know.
@lulu1220 (1009)
• United States
7 Jul 09
That is not easy to answer. I think it depends on the relationship. It depends on the reasons why. Some people are very forgiving and others are not. As for me I think it would be hard to take that person back. How can you ever trust them again?