do you blieve that this time being nice is a crime?

I too am a person who at times feels that my kind heart is taken advantage of, used and given nothing in return. I do not think that I would ever want to live my life any other way though! I hear from a lot of people in my life when something is going wrong in their lives. When they need someone to give advice or just someone to listen to them complain and vent. It does get hard to deal with sometimes, however, I take it as an amazing compliment. These people clearly see something within me that is good, honest, trustworthy and safe. That is why I am the one that they always confide in. It does hurt from time to time to mostly be involved in their sad, or hard moments in life, and when things are good just to talk quickly here and there. I just know that I live my life the way that I do, and I am as kind as I am because I believe that it is the best way to live my life! I would not be happy being mean, grumpy and of no help to improving anothers life! You cannot base your life off of how others live theirs! You must base your life off of loving you and being proud and happy to be who you are! There will always be someone who is mean, having a bad day or even having a bad year. Instead of being mad at them or rude to them, why don't you help them to be kind. Pay it forward!

you are so right.. people act so nice having loads of expectation.. when everything is done, we ll get to know their real color. i used to be nice, but i was taken advantage of it.. so i m not going to be nice anymore.

Do you believe being nice is a crime? Hello friend, I understand how you are feeling but I have to disagree with you and say that being nice to others isn't a crime. It's a crying shame when people take your kindness as a weakness. Personally speaking I think that you ought to keep on being kind because apparently it's become a part of who you are. As for me I am a kind hearted person too. I tend to give and give even when it comes down to me doing without so that others can have. I don't mind it so much because it seems like I always get back in return, it may not come from the person I gave something to but I always get back things. So I do kind deeds mainly because it makes me feel good. That statement about it's better to give that to receive is true. Keep giving and you will see over the long run that you've gotten back more in return than what you've given out. Happy mylot!Believe me friend, it's a Godly principle that's at work in the Earth and it works. We all reap what we sow, give sparingly, you reap sparingly. Give much, you receive much more.