how do men find a girl sexy??

It's balance. A girl with a sexy body (curves in all the right places) but very low self esteem and dresses in baggy unflattering clothes isn't sexy. Likewise that same girl wearing way to short skirts and showing off her body to the whole world isn't sexy either, it's just trashy. Confidence and Self-Esteem are very sexy. For me personally, seeing a girl smoke, no matter how hot her body is or how confident she is, totally turns me off. I wouldn't even say hello to her.

it's on the attitude, not in the body.. that is only my own opinion..!!

dear jane, if you will ask me about being sexy, it sums up with the body plus brain and attitude. your hubby will always find you sexy because you are always together. he will always love you not only because of the body but also of your attitude. even if someone has a body beautiful sexy coca-cola body she has, but has a very bad attitude, her hubby will look at her ugly, remember that. now, if we will talk about body of a girl, i find them sexy with a number eight figure, boobs and butt. but i am more of the butt. neil

I've always found a women's neck very sexy.

I like that hour glass figure, with a good medium set of boobs. Not too curvy of a figure.

Respect yourself! You don't need to dress sluty or act in a certain way to get a guy. If a guy thinks your offering he will try and take you up on your 'offer'. I went to the store sometime last week, and I wore a simple spageti strap shirt. I wasn't showing any cleavage at all, and a group of guys was checking me out. One dude took a second look - so, you have to think. Do they want a girl who will holed her own, or do they want someone who is easy.

Hi jane, this is a question I have often asked myself! It is hard to know what a man likes in a woman but a lot of them especially the young men only as you must know see one thing..others I have known look for the kind thoughtful caring sincere things in a woman..and yes the body always comes into it as well....LoLo