whom do you love more, MOM or DAD??

@janebeth (2032)
Philippines
July 8, 2009 12:06am CST
i heard this quote " i miss mama, i hate u papa. i wish mama is here and you are there in dubai". what a hurtful words to a papa from their son, i keep on asking this because for me my heart is very near to my mother compared to my father, i don't know why. i just felt it.. for you who is more lovelier, MOM or DAD???
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@neildc (17238)
• Lapu-Lapu City, Philippines
10 Jul 09
dear jane, i never heard of this quote and sorry for that. in my own opinion, i can't tell whom should be given greater love or higher value. both are our parents and because of them, because of their love, we will never exist. as for me, maybe, we can say closeness. and if closeness is so to speak, i am closer with mom, though she already passed away. i can tell her everything, my problem with my sweethearts, family, etc. it's just so sad that mom is not here anymore and i have no one else to tell my problem. neil
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@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
oh that is so sad to hear neil, yes like you i can tell to my mom my problems in love and everything.. we really can't compare both of them but i can help it, but i am much closer to my mom than my papa..
@xchyler (258)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
hi janebeth, that's a very difficult question my dear, but i can answer it.. i both love my MOM and DAD..!!! i hope that will not happen to me and in my sons, comparing their parents whom they love more... xchyler.
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@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
yes xchyler it is a very difficult question to answer but we all know that it really happens in real life and it is very painful to know that children do compare their parents..
• India
8 Jul 09
For me it is a difficult question to answer.I love both my parents, it took both of them to get me to where i am now and am doing good for myself at 35.Both parents play a substantial role in our life and it very difficult to fill the debt for the major sacrifices they did till we grown up.Indeed the comparison between them will be the hardest, since both of them earn a great space in our hearts for me I love them both equally and I can't forgive myself if I loved one of them more than the otherand may God give them strength and health and bless them.
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@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
your such a fair one...!! that's wonderful, hope they will be in good health.!!
9 Jul 09
Hi janebeth, i think that some children are cloe to one parent more then the other but believe me when I say treasure your parents and hold them dear to your heart as you only have for some times because I know as both my parents have gone on to the other realm and I miss them . When you are with them just hold them close. Tamara
@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
yes they are really different and there is this rare feeling that you can't explain what you feel among them.. i love them both but i love my mother more, lol..
@jshekhar (1562)
• India
8 Jul 09
Well, I'm sure that is a very difficult question to answer for everyone. However, I'm relatively clear at this one. I've seen my mother work like anything till late night and then get up early morning at 5 next day and continue the same thing. People do not give much credit to household work but trust me, it is a lot. True, my dad also goes to office and works hard for long time but then when he comes back home, my mother takes over and takes care of him and everybody else.
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@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
8 Jul 09
that what MOM is... a very caring, loving one...!! i love u MAMA...!!
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
this a matter of relationship with children.how we treat our kids and how we deal every situation.i may say that i am closer to my mom,but i don't want this thing to happen with my kids.i always tried to build a good relationship between my kids and their dad,it is a matter of explaination why their dad/mom is not around.
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@janebeth (2032)
• Philippines
1 Sep 09
yes jaiho, there is always an explanation for everything.. and with this thing it can explain that this kid loves his mom so much and wishes that she was around and the father will be there far away.. maybe because they do not have a good relationship that's why they ended like that..