how to say "goodbye"
By Jane
@jaiho2009 (39142)
Philippines
July 8, 2009 8:37pm CST
goodbye is a just an ordinary word,like waving goodbye when we part ways after a gathering.but there were times when we don't know how to say it with someone we love.someone we once love,in a situation where we need to end a relationship.thu we know it is better that way,but still after deciding it,it still hurt to say goodbye.
personally i hate to say goodbye,and i seldom use this word.and why do we always hurt the one we love.why can't we love without hurting ourself or hurting someone we love...? :(
6 responses
@rosdimy (3926)
• Malaysia
10 Jul 09
It hurts even more if the word is not uttered. The person left behind is in a limbo, not knowing whether the other person will come back or not, uncertain whether or not to chart a new future plan, possibly suffering from a deep yearning, and possibly missing out on new opportunities.
It is difficult when we know that the other person is deeply in love with us. In one case I explained the reasons to her. Being together could make the relationship becoming bitter. She was asked to look for someone else. She cried, but the tears carried away some of the pain and memories.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
precisely my friend,hoping for things we never knew what will ever happen is like waiting for nothing.and continuing a relationship that we think will never work out is even more hurtfulmemories will always remain,pain will go away as time goes by,tears will always fall,in joy and sorrows.but being true to ourself is the best thing we could ever do in every relationship.it is harder to pretend than to say goodbye i guess.
thanks for your responce my friend =)
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
I think you have to say good day, good morning, good night instead of goodbyes to our love ones. Yes it's true but for men, the hardest is the one who left behind that's why I hate to send someone and left me..that's the hurting moment...
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
10 Jul 09
nobody wants to say goodbye i guess my friend,to hurt ourself or someone we love.but there are certain things that may drive us to do such things.i myself hate to say goodbye,i seldom uses this word.
thanks for your responce my friend =)
@mrakobesie (1246)
• United States
9 Jul 09
I remember how my ex boyfriend was breaking up with me... he actually started crying while breaking up with me...
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
see,this is what i mean.we say goodbye but it hurts.
thanks for your responce my friend =))
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
to end a relationship is one of the hardest thing to do,but there are times that we really need to accept that there's no such word as forever in this world,but the word FOREVER alone =)
thanks for your responce my friend =)
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
when someone left us or say goodbye really break our heart.i always been asking this to myself,why we always hurt the one we love.i hope u had moved on my friend.
thanks for your responce =)
@helicesar (57)
• Indonesia
9 Jul 09
i agree to hate goodbye for love,,,but say goodbye for going people it's ok
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
9 Jul 09
nobody wants to say goodbye to someone we love...but sometimes it has to be that way,thu it hurts we need to face it.
thanks for your responce my friend =)
