2 Incredibly Effective Psychological Tricks Guaranteed to Make Any Girl Like You
July 9, 2009 12:30am CST
Whether they admit it or not, women are some of the most vulnerable creatures on the planet. If you are well versed on your skills of charming, you'll be surprised at the reaction you get. Since most women are insecure and see themselves as awkward, they absolutely jump all over anyone who shows them any signs of love, attention, or affection. Because of this, you can use three well known psychological tricks to get a girl, any girl, to like you... Mainly, because they have been hit on by hundreds of guys, they're looking for a refreshing change to the drones of dudes who look the same, act the same, and use the same lines. Be that guy who is cheerful, fun loving, and lively, and you'll be surprised at how much they're willing to do for you. This is a psychological trick that makes them associate laughter and a good time with you, which in turn makes them want to be with you, instead of the hundreds of other guys. It sounds simple, but that's how it works. A girl is also looking for a guy who can take care of themselves. This applies to grooming and good manners. If you can take care of yourself, you're sending the message that you'll be able to take care of her. This triggers a primordial instinct in women that attracts them to men who can and will protect and take care of them. It gives them a feeling of security and assurance, which any girl would do anything to get.
9 Jul 09
This post shows you know absolutely nothing about women, and it certainly wouldn't do it for me. I can't stand patronising attitudes like yours. I am certainly not vulnerable, insecure and awkward, and neither are most of the ladies I know. We're a much more complicated species than that, and while most of us do go for a sense of humour and good looks rather than the grunting caveman type, any intelligent lady will look for much more than that in a potential boyfriend. You don't exhibit any of the qualities I would look for if I were in the market for a man. Please don't dish out such sweeping advice. I'd hate to think that some of the younger, more inexperienced guys on Mylot would fall for this rubbish.
9 Jul 09
Hi Sandra, looks like we are here at the same time, is it too hot to be outside there like it is here? Anyway just had to comment as my first reaction to this post was do mylot allow young teenage boys to make posts? So I had a look and this post was by a 22 year old woman! Maybe she feels insecure, vulnerable and awkward and is looking for the right guy to sweep her of her feet. Anyway it'd obviously been copied from some website or book advising young boys on how to attract a woman, follow that and they will go far wrong, don't you agree!
9 Jul 09
Hi Thea. We're in England at the moment, but it's quite warm. I wish I'd looked this up before responding, but I was just so mad! I won't waste my time on this member any more. Mylot is about quality discussions, and this is definitely not quality.